How do i get my best guy friend,who loves me,to fall inlove with me?

Question

i asked earlier how to get over him,now i want to know how to get him to fall inlove with me.we live in different states for now,but he is coming back.he will be moving in with me,he will have his own room.we talk everyday for hours.we love each others company,before he left,he was here everyday.we like eachothers personalities.we wrote a song together,but he told me the other day hat he thinks im inlove with him and that he only loves me as his best friend.what can i do to make him fall inlove.i really want to be in a relationship with him,i would do anything for him,he makes me happy.please help me!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

You can't. You just can't "get" someone to fall in love with you, or "make" them fall in love with you. It's something that happens naturally, and if this guy has told you that he loves you as a friend but isn't in love with you and doesn't want a relationship like that, you have to respect his decision.

You'll only hurt yourself more by pining for that kind of relationship. It might be easier for you if you distance yourself for a while from him - tell him that because of the way you feel, you need some space to get used to the idea of just being friends. I know I didn't give you the answer you wanted, but I have tried to be as helpful as possible. If you keep hanging out with him one on one without giving yourself time to accept that you are only friends, you'll set yourself up for more hurting.