How do i get my boyfriend back?

Question

I'm 17 ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and for the first two years i treated him like dirt. He was always so sweet to me, always had time for me and gave me his full attention. i would often call him names like your a piece of s*** or i f****** hate you, and just real hurtful things. one time i really hurt him to the point where his eyes got teary. don't get me wrong i love, i adore this guy, he has a 4.4 GPA in school and has a great paying job and is gonna start his freshmen year in college (hes 18). the reason why i would treat him like this was because every time i would talk trash to him he would tell me things like, "why are you like this with me if i love you so much and I'm always so nice to you?" i just loved the attention and the things he would say to me. but lately he doesn't tell me anything anymore and his attitude is becoming more aggressive. he's no longer that nice guy that i knew. i feel like if i changed him because of my attitude. but i want him to forgive me but every time i wanna talk about that he just tells me to shut up, and that the damage i did to him is already done. i feel so bad and i don't know what i can do to make him forgive me? any advice would be nice. thanks guys

Ps: and i know you guys probably think im a you know what and i know that. i grew up though and im not like that anymore.

Answer 1

If I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't even consider taking you back.  After a couple years of being treated like that, I would be glad to have you gone from my life.  You sound very insecure and people can't go around constantly stroking your ego to make you feel special and important all the time to keep you from going into a rage!  He's obviously not in love with you and has moved on.......there is no way known he's going to risk giving you another chance.

What you need to do is focus on and deal with this insecurity issue you have and find another less agressive way of dealing with your anger when you're not the centre of attention!  The world was not created to revolve around you!

Learn and grow from this experience and perhaps you'll have better luck with your next boyfriend but you're going to have to forget this one because he's history!

Answer 2

hes prolly sick of the way u treated him n honestly i dont blame him

Answer 3

ITHINK SOMETIMES ITS BEST TO LET THE PAST STAY IN THE PAST,CAUSE I DON THINK THIS GUY WILL EVER TAKE YOU BACK,,PEACE

Answer 4

I think you blew it! But if you still want to try, tell him what you just said here. If he doesn't want anything to do with you, well then I guess you have learned a very good life lesson on how to treat people. You should always treat the people you love with respect. If you want attention...ask for it.