How do i get my cat to like me?

Question

whenever i come near, she runs and hides

Answer 1

it might used to be a stray and stray cats have their natural instincts like poncing attacking running from bigger and scarier things.

Answer 2

Just be nice to it,spend some time with it and try to hand feed it...don,t exhaust it by being after it all the time,

Answer 3

set out some food while its eating come up about four feet away talk to it in a sweet voice every 30 seconds come a foot closer and then rub its head.

pretty soon it will l-o-v-e you. (just remember to bring it in for the winter.)

Answer 4

Be very calm around her, and eventually she will trust you enough that you can pet her. After a while you should be able to pet her on a regular basis, and petting is important when it comes to human and cat relationships.

Whatever you do, do not appear as an enemy toward your cat. Don't make any sudden sounds or jerks because that easily scares cats and other animals too. You need to make it clear that you mean no harm, and i'm sure your kitty will understand sooner or later. However, it's important to remember that all cats that have skittish personalities will not be completely calm not matter what you do.  

Answer 5

She sounds like she is new to your house. Confine her in one room with everything she needs, food, water, litter box etc. Go into the room and sit on the floor quietly, read a book, watch tv or listen to music, quietly. Talk to her in a soft quiet voice and tell her what a good kitten she is and how beautiful etc. etc. She will get used to you that way and if you feed her yourself she will associate you with food. You can also buy some meat baby food and see if you can get her to l**k it off your finger. It takes patience, good luck.