How do i get my friend to tell me the truth?

Question

i can kind of tell that he likes me, and there are rumors going around about it, but i've asked him once, and he lied to me and said he didn't.

i sort of like him, too, and i've known him well enough for awhile that i can tell he's lying to me.

how do i tell him? or at least how do i get him to be honest with me?

also, another problem:

i like this guy, my other friend, and i'm confused between the two of these friends. let's call the first one jake and this one mike. jake said he'd write me over the summer, and i haven't gotten a single letter. i was planning to go out with jake this year but he hasn't shown any interest in me since the end of the school year, mainly because i've only seen him twice.

who should i pick? what do i do? is jake a big liar? ahh!

Answer 1

oh the woes of being young!!!

Let him come to you, you already asked.....it will look weird to keep hinting and asking.....if he really likes you, he will say eventually....otherwise leave it be!

Ok as for who to pick???? Why do you have to pick right now.....I mean is there a time crunch??? School is about to start up do you not want to check out the guys there, maybe theres some new ones???? If one won't admit he likes you and the other you never see and he doesn't right.......I'd say pick neither!

Answer 2

he doesn't like you HAHAHAHAH

Answer 3

Slow down!  You are only thirteen how about less worrying on the boys and more on school!

Answer 4

hmm do what feels right

Answer 5

its the end of the year crush, hun. it was nothing basically. if you like your friend, too, you ask him out. don't force him to.