How do i get my husband to verbalize and express his needs?

Question

How do i get my husband to verbalize and express his needs?

Answer 1

Ask him!!!  When he answers, listen,

Don't talk just listen!!!!

Answer 2

Keep bothering him - and also - Tell him you want to know because you love him. If something is bothering him and you care enough to find out why and fix the problem - then he should answer you.

You dont know what to fix unless you know!  

Answer 3

A man's needs are simple- s*x,food,s*x,football,s*x,s*x,s*x,s*x,fo... wash,s*x!!!

Answer 4

I've been trying to get my wife to be more verbal since before we were married... she won't tell me what she needs/wants so I have to act and guess depending on her response.

Answer 5

Unfortunately some men and women are equal in their lack of expression to their needs and/or feelings. It may be a psychological issue that leaves them shy when it comes to verbalize their needs. They tend to create a tense moment as their partner dives into a mind reading session. The good part I tend to believe is that they offer no resistance to follow the lead as they finally cooperate to the full.

Answer 6

walk around the house naked,, he will express his needs really fast

Answer 7

You don't.  If he did stuff like that, he'd be either g*y or a woman.  Leave him to his manliness and keep trying to mind read.

Answer 8

I've been asking myself the same question. My partner lacks emotion & excitement & he is just so hard to read as he won't say what he feels or wants. When I ask him he says everything's fine, there is nothing wrong & that men aren't like women that want to have D&M's everyday. Fare enough but give us something! So I don't know, just try & get it out of him in a nice calm way