How do i get out of this situation?urgent!!

Question

i have enrolled myself forcefully to this programme conducted by my contemporary dance class.i am not in any main role,but i come a lot of times on the stage.that's not the point.too much of my time is wasted in practice which takes upto about 5hrs everyday leaving me no room for my studies.it is an important year for me i still have about 15days of practice to go.how can i drop out?what reason can i give my teacher.he asked us to inform early,but i did not know about the consequences.can i ask him to put me in a few dances only?this may work too and for me to be in a few dances i have to come only for very few hours.what reason can i give her.i am not a sportsperson.i cannot tell him that i hvae to study,he will ask me to miss it for a few days,he will not understand,so PLEASE give me a reason!!!it's extremely URGENT

Answer 1

Tell her u sprained the ankle and doctor says no much walking or dancing for a week or 10 days. they will drop u from the dance if u cannt go to prectice for a week.

Hope this helps. all the best

Answer 2

Hi!

I can completely understand why you dont want tell your teacher that you cant continue coz u need to study...You feel that he'll say that you should have thought of this earlier etc etc...and that he'll insult you...

But you know, frankly, if you lie to him or give him an excuse...it might not be all that convincing...and it might just give u away....! then ull get all the more insulted...

Best option would be to tell him very honestly...Tell him that when u joined you didnt think that all the practices etc would take so much of your time....But now, you feel that you are neglecting ur studies and not able 2 take out enough time for them...And hence, you need to priorotize...

Tell him, if he could either give u a smaller part so dat you could would get more time for your studies...if not, then just apologize and tell him you wont be able 2 gv so much time 2 dance hence, u wana quit...

He might get a lil upset initially...but gradually he'll realize....

All the best!

Answer 3

well, talk to the teacher, say your studies are your number one priority right now. If he or she doesnt go for it, try talking to them again, but more forcefully, you need to show them whats important in YOUR life to YOU! If dancing is second you sure as heck show him or her that its second.dont take c**p from them either, you know whats best for you.

Good luck.

Ashleigh

Answer 4

yea u should just tell the teacher that u need more time to study and so ask him/her if she could only put u in a few dances because u have a lot of homework from other teachers etc. and just talk to your teacher him/her will understand I'm sure he/she will

Answer 5

If the studies excuses fail, contract food poisoning (Y)

Answer 6

Tell him ur parents want u to be back early or opt out

Answer 7

fall down the stage and behave as if u hv been hurt in ur arm or neck

say that u feel puking when u dance a lot and ur doc had adviced u to not dance

Answer 8

Just be honest and say the five hours a day are too much for you personally.it is not a failure to admit we don't have the amount of time it takes for an activity.One activity can take over a persons' whole life.You are old enough to make adult decisions, so you need to take care of yourself, and do what's better for your own life.Many people change their studies and points of interests.Stand up, be brave, and speak honestly and sincerely,and you will be proud of yourself,and be stronger and next time it will be easier to stand up for what you believe.

Answer 9

Cool Gal,

I don't care if he is your teacher or not, if you just explain pretty much what you did in your question about the time issues and your need to prioritize,  he should understand and try to work with you. that is that, just tell it like it is, no need for any excuses, just be honest about it all with the Teacher. You mad a mistake, you are Human after all, that is OK !!

Answer 10

no no no

DO tell him you have to study. Academics come before... extra stuff..

Anyway

Would you rather have gotten good marks put toward your future, or be in a dance?

If you get bad marks, you won't be able to be in anything anyway cuz you'll have to improve.

say you have to study...