How do i get over my insecurities? ?

Question

I really hate some of my facial features, but i guess il just have to learn to accept them but im finding it hard as im always self conscious!?!? :@:@

Answer 1

Join my club I have a cleft lip. I hate my face because of it. I dont use makeup as I cant be bothered appying it. I try to focous on my better features such as my eyes. I also have my hair done and dress as fashionable as I can afford to.

The link below shows some pictures of cleft lips but mine isnt as bad as some. However modern technology gives better results after surgery now than it did 30 years ago when I was a baby.  

Answer 2

its something that takes time...a long time to grow used to.

Answer 3

try training yourself mentally; meaning tell yourself you look good and try to believe it. and also don't focus so much on your flaws, but more on your good features. even better would be to stop seeing them as flaws altogether. flaunt what you got :) just take it one day at a time.

Answer 4

Be like the raggydolls:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vrDiW00__...

Answer 5

gggrr im with u

Answer 6

Well there is plastic surgery and I actually knew someone who had it done and it was a very good improvement.  This was several years ago so I am sure the methods have only gotten better, I would make sure you have a good surgeon though.

Answer 7

don't worry about it most of us has things we don't like about our self's don't b self conscious just b u x