How do i get over worrying about if my husband wants other girls?

Question

I am 15 and my husband is 19. He had slept with only two girls before me and I can't help but worry that he might want to do more with others. I slept with more people then him and so ive had my chance with other guys. He hasnt really had much of that option with other girls. Im afraid that he will eventually start wondering what it would be like with other girls.

Answer 1

Your married at 15? Wow.

Answer 2

pshhh... i'm alot older than you 2 and i still want other girls... doesn't mean i'll act on it, but my eyes ain't dead... just trust him to window shop and not buy anything

Answer 3

Your brain isn't mature enough to be married.  You married way to young.  Either grow up or get out of this marriage and be a regular 15 year old girl.  I know you have a child.  For your child sake continue with getting an education.  Stop having children and further your career.  Nobody knows what life has to bring.  Make sure you can do it on your own.

Answer 4

You're jealous of thse other girls becasue you're 15, and from what you asay you're not a very good 15 year old, you've probably slept with more people than I have. Do you kids know there are things out there that you can use wear that prevent pregnancy? Yet you all still seem to get yourselves pregnant. No nothing is wrong with you, we all make bad choices in life, it's just your choice brough another life into the world.

I'm with Val, Ok you've been married for 8 months, but your'e insecurity, and age, I don't see your "marriage" lasting another 8 months. Prove me wrong,don't push him a way with yoru insecurities, keep him close make give him a reason to stay with you.  

Answer 5

You're only 15 and you're already this nuts?

What in the world happened to your childhood?

Anyway, you get over it by just realizing that he does want other girls.  Say it outloud: "My husband wants other girls."

Now, understand that he is with you.

Finally, realize that you get what you wish for more than you think.  If you're constantly obsessing about this, it will come true.  Change your thinking to one of happiness and acceptance and your worrying will go away.

Answer 6

Ignoring all the age-bashing everybody else is doing ... what's done is done, I have to assume you are both for real ... congrats on finding the love of your life so early.

Of course he is going to *check out* other girls (just like you do) but if you mean "want" as in want to and plot to take it somewhere, it depends on the man and his maturity.  Two is enough for some people, in fact I've only had one and would prefer that my next be "the one" (I wish the first one had been but that's another story).  Some guys mature early in that department and others never grow up.  So which type did you marry?

If nothing else, a lot of guys get comfortable with a situation (in this case, your marriage) and wouldn't do something like that to s***w it up.

Answer 7

first of all u got married way too young..sorry to say but i know from experience.im going thru a divorce because i got married way to young. bottom line if he loves you he wont cheat regardless if he has or hasnt had the opportunity. but how in the world do u know what u want at that age??

Answer 8

This "marriage" is going to last all of 8 months, I can guarantee it!

Answer 9

Being that you're both young, it's likely you'll both cheat on each other during the course of your marriage (unless you're both devoutly religious).  When it happens, you should both go to marriage counseling.

Answer 10

YOU MARRIED AT 15????/   Boy, that's not a marriage that's going to last.

You're both immature, your personalities aren't set yet, you're still in school and you're jealous for no reason.

Please, please, please, I beg you, DON'T GET PREGNANT FOR AT LAST 5 YEARS!!!!

Answer 11

sorry you shouldnt be married and at that age he isnt anything but a walking hard on he is going to cheat on you all the time

Answer 12

Is it legal for a 19 year old to marry a 15 year old?

Answer 13

if he loves you he wouldnt