How do i get rid of a female stalker?

Question

I am stuck in a bit of a weird situation, i am 25 and have this 36\7year old woman stalking me, she is obsessed with me, she is also married, she keeps calling me and asking to meet over lunch or dinner, a while back she asked me if i would be her friend and i unwillingly agreed out of sympathy. I needed to renovate and sell my old place and a relative introduced me to her (she is in the real estate and renovations, inter. deco industry), so i called up the lady and met her and she helped renovate and sell my place and helped to find me a new place, she did not charge any commision for her work even though i incissted, she said it was no biggy and a favor. I thought it was over and settled next thing i know she is wanting to meet me weekly or will bring up some small issue(regarding the house) to meet me such. She creeps me out and i don't know what to do about it.

Answer 1

If everything is over and settled now, you may want to call her and tell you that you are not "interested" as such. Tell her maybe that at most you want to be VERY CASUAL friends/acquaintances.

Another option is to tell her that you are not interested, very sorry, offer to pay the charge, and end it there.

Changing your number AFTER talking to her, is also an option. You can tell her that u are freaked out and not interested, but hopefully in a "nice" but serious way

Answer 2

the answer is easy,

you said she was chubby, ask her when she is due,

she'll never speak to you again

Answer 3

Call the police.

Tell her husband.

Get a restraining order.

Beware. She is a kook and likely a die hard feminist. If you don't  protect yourself, she WILL take advantage of you.

Answer 4

call her husband  and  ask him  why  is  his wife calling  you  and  asking  to go  out  and stalking  you

Answer 5

Stalking is a crime. If you are seriously scared, get a restraining order against her. If she persists, get her arrested.

Answer 6

You either change your number, or find some guy to introduce her to. Make sure the guy is her type (which means somehow like you).

Answer 7

If she won't take the hint- restraining order, maybe?

Answer 8

Do her sister

Answer 9

tell her you don't like her anymore than just a friend (if that).

Answer 10

Drop hints that your g*y and get a male friend with a sense of humour to help make it look realistic.

Answer 11

Wishful thinking troll

Answer 12

Jeez - sounds like you have the same stalker I do.  I find mine harmless, though annoying.  I think you either need to just ignore the calls or deal with her as a distant friend and talk every now and then...that's what I do.  Some people just need a friend...not so much a stalker as someone who can't make friends easily and tend to latch on to others easily.

Answer 13

9mm

Answer 14

She may just be a bit simple and sad, but with these types you can never tell. Try ignoring her and see if she gets the message, but if not maybe yoiu could talk to her husband?

Answer 15

Contact the cops. And avoid her as much as you can.

Answer 16

KILL KILL KILL

no no don't really

just tell her to buzz of

lol sorry i'm not sure hope u get your answer

x*x <3

Answer 17

report to the police

Answer 18

Talk to your relative and ask what is wrong with this woman or if she is like that or what...

Otherwise, if your relative seems unsympathetic, just kiss the lady goodbye, before you get in trouble.

Just do it by telling her you are "busy".

Answer 19

i think m8. you should just stop and talk 2 her. say why are you stalking me and say why can she just hang around with her husband. then if you can, talk to her husband about what has happen (and try not 2 get punched! lol). then if she still doesnt stop, threaten her to call the police. and if that doesnt work give her a good beatening. lol