How do i get soemone to realize ?

Question

my best friend soon to be ex best friend is so rude and doesnt care well at least doesnt show it it seems she values her self pride over our friendship how do i get her to realize she beings so rude and how do i get her to care any ideas plllllz

Answer 1

get even with her. before you 2 stop being friends, act similar to her then she would know how it feels from you point of view. then stop being her friend

Answer 2

You cannot make her do anything.  She obviously doesn't see that she is rude and selfish because she is only focused on herself.    It may take something dramatic to happen to help her to realize that her behavior is not acceptable.  

You can try talking to her about it and see what happens and give her a chance.  But don't expect her to change overnight.  Give yourself a time line and If her behavior continues or get worse I would distance myself from her.  You don't have to be rude but just don't hang out with her like you do not.  

You don't want her behavior to rub off on you so it is best to stay away from her so that cannot happen.  

Answer 3

You can do the hard thing (which i had to do) and confront her and say "I want to be your friend but you need to respect me more or less i don't want to be friends with you" (it sounds stupid but it works) then look her in the eye and walk away.

or you can do the silent treatment and ignore her.