How do i help my friend gain respect back with people?

Question

I have a friend that used to be really cool with everyone. But shes says i stole her thunder. Then everyone in my grade stopped talking to her, and she only had 3 friends. ME, and my 2 other friends. But during the beginning of summer she told me to never contact her again and she called me some "choice" words. but then 4 days later apologized expecting everything to be okay. When it was not, all my guys friends are telling me to ditch her. but my girl girl friends are telling me to be nice. i don't know what to do because i don't really like her, but i don't want to be mean, i want to help her. But i don't even enjoy her as a friend. please help.

Answer 1

This is a normal problem.

I think you should continue being with her.

Talk to her, as a friend. You know, make her feel more comfortable.

As your girlfriend say, make sure you be nice to her.

Like you say, you want to help her out, but you don't want her to become your friend. Now, that is sorta cruel you know.

You should get to know her better then.

Make her join a club or something.

Introduce her too some of your friends that doesn't hate her.

Cause is mess up if your friend is telling to ditch her.

Cause, without friends, the world is useless, and she may commit suicide, but we'll not talk about that.

So yah, you should become friends with her even though you don't want it. Beside, maybe something good will happen to her, like a super model, at least she will always know that you help her out and she'll be thanking you. You'll never know, you could be meeting a famous person right there.