How do i keep my boyfriend interested after i have a baby?

Question

I'm about 38 weeks pregnant, so i'm obviously big at the moment. When I have the baby, I know I probably won't be "smokin' hot" again for quite some time. I might just be insecure, but i don't know if he'll still be interested. The baby will take away some of our cuddle time, i know, but what do you guys think? Should i be worried?

Answer 1

If you are worried that he won't like you there are creams and stuff for helping you return to normal. And breastfeeding helps the body return to normality.

Answer 2

As the above post said, if he loves you he will deffinately still be interested. Good luck with everything.

Answer 3

you should not be worried just always be looks beautiful and s**y! As if you don't undergo giving birth.

Answer 4

No no no...if your partner loves you, he can still be attracted to other women and even engage in sexual encounters and still love you. s*x is not love and love is not s*x. Love is love is love. Don't take this the wrong way, but only women say that "if a man loves you he won't cheat." There is no easy answer that will apply to every situation. The answer lies in how much you have invested in the relationship before this point. First of all, you two should be close friends, able to confide in one another about anything. Like your worries about him being attracted to you. Make sure to have that conversation with him so that he knows that its something that has crossed your mind. Next, comes the long term commitments of each of you and how long you two have been together. If the relationship is fairly new and a baby has been thrown into the mix then thats all bad. If you two have been together  for some time and planned to have a child together, then thats a plus. You see, a man will stray if he has not made the commitment in his heart to not stray. In my opinion, if you are not married, then you are free to do whatever you want. Boyfriend/Girlfriend are just words. Men are constantly bombarded with images that provoke sexual thoughts: magazines, tv commercials, web page advertisements, women who dress provocatively, and of course p**n. Most men have a sexual desire and that desire is inflated by everything that I just listed. We are a visual creature and will desire things that are visually stimulating, yet we are expected to not act on it. Its a balancing act. The most important thing that I can tell you is that you trust your chosen mate. That is one surefire way to push him into someone else's arms. In the end, all you can do is trust that you made a good decision by being with this person. People are going to do whatever they want to do and no amount of worrying, complaining, or fighting will change that. As long as you can forgive anything that your mate might potentially do, you'll be okay.

Sorry, I don't even know if I answered your question...

Answer 5

why should you expect a "boyfriend" to be interested at all; after all he sampled the goods without having to buy them; look how easy it was with you.  What makes you think he won't be out looking for more of the same with someone else who thinks being "smokin' hot" is the most important thing in the world?

Perhaps now that you are going to have a child to raise you might want to consider a more mature and intelligent way at looking at life.  After all a "real man" would have said, let's get married before our baby is born.

sorry to be so blunt, but life is tough and it is time to grow up before that baby arrives.

Answer 6

if your boyfriend really loves you, you dont need to worry at all about keeping him interested...so ask yourself, and ask him if you can

>hope this helps<

Answer 7

Well, if he's only interested in you when you're looking your best then he isn't much of a boyfriend... but if he really is a good guy, he should love you just the same. I mean you just had a baby, what is he expecting?

Anyhow, since it'll be awhile before you can actually have s*x without putting yourself in danger for infection, I guess you can always give him a good BJ now and then. I don't know, you can be creative, there's more to giving pleasure than f*cking.