How do i keep my cool on the field while playing?

Question

i seem to attract players taht like to play dirty during my soccer games...and i admit im physical too but lately ive started to get super mad or something just blow up..ive gotten in BIGGG trouble for this before and have gotten kicked outta games

does anyone know any ways i can keep my cool better while playing??

thanx

Answer 1

Just stay positive, although it is normal too get these feelings try too channel them through positive thoughts.

like plastic said above "its just a game"

Answer 2

You may have a problem with things that don't go your way. It's social.

You might want to practice more, & have Patience. Remember, you may have to deal with these poeple, later, at parties and things. You can't be yourself and move foreward with a strange reputation.

Answer 3

  This is not a game of life, and death so why take it that seriously. I don't blame the coach, if you think you're going to lose it just have your replacement go in, and play so you can cool off on the sideline. That's what the coach is trying to do.

Answer 4

Remind yourself "It's just a game".

Answer 5

Breathe. As cliché as that might be.

I've had girls that do that to. I cast them a sour look, breathe and say to myself, "Aight. Next time. She goes down." Take them out. Play dirty back.

Release your anger by shutting them down. If they're coming at you, brace yourself for impact and stop them. Don't let them think they can up-stage you or show you down. You are the boss.

And my varsity friend said, when your neck-and-neck and two fingers and stab her in the lower back, somewhere by the kidney, they go down like wheat. I wouldn't know, never been man enough to try it.

I hope that helps.