How do i know if a guy wants 2 get in my pants?

Question

Okay theres this guy that i always talk 2 hes 1 year older than me and like okay my cuzin keeps telling me that all he wants 2 do is get in my pants ----

okay well he always calls me babe and wen im sad he says "babe whats wrong? " and plus wen i say were (JUST) friends he usally says " sure... lol " thats what he says and he always tells me im pretty cuz i always say im ugly well i am but still he says 2 me ur not ugly ur pretty and it makes me so happy and plus he rely brings a smile2 my face evrytym and oh ya hes the reason i stopped cutting myself so ya and it makes me mad cuz my cuzin said that he is just trying 2 sweet talk me so he can get in my pants and that makes me mad cuz hes not like that and i know hes a really great guy and i can trust him more than any1 else its weird... but anyway i was just wondering if my cuzin is rite????

Is it true ??

Answer 1

l2spell. (cousin)

All guys want to get into somebodys pants. The question should be, how do you know thats all he wants?  I say give him a chance, you'll never know.

Answer 2

dont have s*x with him, see if try too pressure you or if he's okay with not having s*x,then you'll know

Answer 3

I'm young and the spelling is annoying lol

Why is that girls always think all guys want to do is get in girls pants?

They might just want the girl to get in his pants ya know?

But seriously, do you want to be mean to him or something and wondering later in life if the kid who helped you stop cutting was trying to get in your pants or if he just liked you a lot?

Carpe Diem (google it)

Answer 4

Sounds like it.

I had this guy do almost the same thing to me... later on he confessed he was just trying to sleep with me.

Answer 5

maybe he's... a friend who wants to get in ur pants [:

Answer 6

all guys wanna get in your pants.

just give it time dont go to fast with him. if he respects that you want to go slow thats a good sign that he dosent want you just for s*x

Answer 7

if your cousin is a guy then u should trust him cause guys know how other guys are...think about it you are doubting your judgement too...cause if you wasn't you would not be asking a lot of strangers

Answer 8

well it just really depends guys are always thinking about s*x...soo your cousin might be a right... i know you might hate that someone agrees with your cousin but im just being realistic...he COULD be different but guys do always think about s*x nothing can change that, its hormones and such.. we're guys =/...

Answer 9

Quite right.

Answer 10

He may be showing a different side of himself around your cousin, but from your point of view..it just seems like he's being sweet..

--BEWARE--

If he says he wants to take the relationhip to a "new level" but is willing to wait for you..and then sweet talks you a lot..THAT'S when he wants to get in your pants

Answer 11

he might have a thing for ya.

give him a chance.

if u regret it, message me and ill let u kick me straight in the balls

Answer 12

sounds like the same thing im going threw! let me know when you find a good answer! THANKS!

Answer 13

shes just lookin out for you

ALL boys want s*x no matter how much he is your friend , he still wants some

if you do sleep with him dont read to much into it , thats the problems with girls today they think there 'in love' - its just s*x , have fun but dont ever assume a guy is in it for the long run

always use a condom

Answer 14

your cousin sounds like a bitc h..

thats not true..

he wants you

Answer 15

not all guys want to get in a girls pants mabey he just likes you... ever thought of that? mabey if u give it some time u will like him2

Answer 16

he seems like a nice guy, but if you arent ready to take on the responsability of having s*x, and YOU are not ready do not give in. if he stick around, then great, if not, theres a man out there that will respect your boundaries

Answer 17

all guys are looking for is s*x

Answer 18

@ Deka: I'm sorry, but you're wrong. Not all guys do. Last time I checked, I was a guy, and last time I checked, I was still a virgin, and planning on remaining so until marriage. It saddens me that your past experiences have given you this impression. =( I hope you meet someone who is able to change your perception.

@ Questioner: I would think the first few questions I would ask, is how long has this been going on? How old are you? And has he ever pressured you physically? From your description of him, he sounds like a really great guy. Unfortunately, I know how hard it is to be unbiased and view the situation objectively. What I'm saying is, I'm a guy, and it is entirely possible he may just be trying to have s*x with you and that's all. Love may be blinding you to his true intentions in a way that doesn't affect your cousin. Your cousin can see and judge this guy dispassionately, but she may not know him as well as you do.

     Based solely on your description of the guy, I would say no, he isn't. I hope that this works out for you, and that he doesn't break your heart. I know how both how easy it is to do so, and how hard it is to recover from... :'-(

     I know this may seem obvious, but sometimes guys aren't aware of the signals they're sending: If you want to know if he is interested in you for sure, challenge him to define your relationship. You never know, you may end up happily ever after. I hope so! There's nothing I like more than seeing people happy. GOOD LUCK!!!!

-- A regular 17 year old guy ^_^