How do i know if shes bi or straight?

Question

So this girl-

we used to be really good friends...and i think it kind of just started with joking around. but we started to just be really touchy, and we'd like wrestle and just have sleepovers almost every other night for 2 months- and when my dad was in the hospital she held my hand like while walking in...

then it started becoming more than just that-

it started off by just playing truth or dare which was her idea... then it turned into all dares..

...then ended up having s*x.

it lasted like this for a little over 3 weeks- after school or if we were just hanging out we'd just lay in bed just cuddling while taking naps.

and when i told her i was bi after all of that kind of stopped after about 2 months of sleepovers- she was like "im straight im straight!"

now she hates me-

but she still tries to talk to me just to p**s me off...

like i dont get it-

if she did all of these things then she claims shes straight... do you think shes straight or bi or what?!

oh and her favorite show is south of nowhere which i guess is mostly about this L*****n couple-

Answer 1

t sounds like she's bi or L*****n but do you think she might just be scared of coming out or maybe she's hoping it's a phase because of all the homophobes in the world  

Answer 2

She is confused - don't take it personally.

Answer 3

she obviously got scared. just tell her its all right to be who she is

btw i lovee south of nowhere

check out my avatar ;)

Answer 4

so, you two had s*x, but you are asking if she is straight..?

not trying to be mean; just trying to figure out.

Answer 5

oh gosh,.. u had s*x with her, and yet she`s saying that she is straight?!, either she`s bi or lez, but for sure she's not straight come on now..

Answer 6

Ive had the same situation,

she was just having some fun but yeah she is probably a bisexual or a L*****n, chances are she was just in it for the fun and when you said you were a bi she took it as in you were looking for a serious thing.  

Ask her for yourself she might tell you,

x

Answer 7

How old are you two? maybe she is just scared of ridicule to "come out".

Answer 8

It sounds to me like she's bi or g*y but she's too scared to admit it like to herself,and thats why even though you  had s*x with her she's trying to act like she's straight bcuz she's scared.

Answer 9

Ok can't comment on 'south of nowhere' as don't get that in the UK, although do get the 'L Word' (fab pro gramme)

I don't think your friend is in denial just em brassed by what she has done. Not that there is anything to be em brassed about....it takes all sorts to make the world tick...  

With regard to her trying to talk to you and then be nasty, I think this has got something to do with 'attack is the first form of defense'......

I think her sexuality has hit her like a thunderbolt and she is scared to accept the outcome. As hard as it may sound try and be patient with her, don't let her ridicule you though.

Good luck and try not to get hurt x

Answer 10

Im sorry you even had this experience. Alright I will admit I pulled the same thing your friend did to another girl. I wanted to take things slow (first time) and she rushed me. I gave in because I was afraid to reject her and blow my shot. Less than a month later she started talking about being with me for a long time and telling her family and I panicked and ran. I cant speak for your friend, but I can say that I was super confused. I didnt know what I really wanted. I was hurt and scared so I hurt her.

*I have talked to her since and apologized a million times for what I did. We are on positive speaking terms now*