How do i let a guy that likes me know that im not interested?!?

Question

theres this guy.

i guess he likes me.

he texts me every freakin day at like 2 in the morning.

i heard he's a player, and i dont really want to get involved with him.

i dont like him, but i think he thinks i like him though.

how do i let him know that i dont?

Answer 1

Trouble is, pretty much all of us want to be liked, so you're probably telling him to stop in nice, friendly ways. I think you need to tell him *very* firmly that he's way out of line and to stop harassing you. If he doesn't stop, then it is harassment, and you should escalate it -- to the school, college or workplace authorities if that's where it's happening, even to the police if he's really persistent. Guys need to try, it's all part of the game, but guys who won't back off when they're causing a nuisance are, frankly, a danger, and need to be controlled if they won't control themselves.

Answer 2

TELL HIM!!!!!

Answer 3

Either flat out tell him or start to ignore him.  One way or the other, he'll get the message.

Answer 4

Text him, and ask him not to text you any more.

Answer 5

i've been in the same situation.

1. ignore his texts and callls.

2. if he starts flirting turn him off by insulting him and then leave.

3. if he doesn't get it just say you found a bf.

best of luck girl!

x*x

Answer 6

ignore him and if he keeps up tell him you dont like him that way

Answer 7

You THINK he does.  Turn your phone off at night and just be normal.  If he TELLS you that he likes you then tell him you don't think of him like that.

Answer 8

Tell him you're not interested.

Answer 9

ignore his txts.

dont talk to him for a while.

if he doesn't get the hint, tell him straight out.

i hate guys who cant take hints

good luck!

Answer 10

Do you like him as a friend at all? If so, just always emphasise what a good friend he is and he'll get it.

However, if you don't like him at all, just tell him you're not interested or not looking for a relationship at this point in time. If he still doesn't leave you alone, feel free to be more direct ie. "leave me alone jerk"