How do i let someone down gently that...?

Question

seems to really like me... but i've come to realise that all i was doing was blocking out my true feelings for someone else.. coz i no i cant have that someone else...? I dont wanna hurt him but the longer i leave it.. the worse it will get.. =(

Answer 1

There, you already said it. "...the longer I leave it.. the worse it will get.."

I think you just have to be very honest with that person and tell him the truth about your feelings. Tell him you like someone else and you just got kind of caught up with these feeling that's why you got confused.

The longer you have to kind of lie to him, the deeper the hurt you could inflict. Tell the truth. Just give a good approach in saying it.

Answer 2

You are hurting hime by not telling him your true feelings. He diserves to know so that he can move on to another female interest!

Answer 3

just say I don't want you... but I will give you a bj.

he'll feel better and will move on. trust me ; )

Answer 4

it would be better if ur open with ur feelings & tell him the truth than keeping him in the dark & hurt him more..... call him out & gently tell him there is someone else in ur life, reassure him that it wasn't because of anything u had between u & him but just circumstances & feelings that just didnt work out between the both of u.... be open, be truthful & jus let go & tell him to do the same..... best of luck