How do i let them care about me or at least respect me ??

Question

i'm a 19 year old college girl

in the uni i'm the most low-self esteem you will ever meet

whatever my friends ( classmates is a better name for them )

say i agree with them ... even if i have another opinion

i always feel that i have to agree with them and like the same things that they like to make them like me

it doesn't make sense but i can't help it

i hate that i'm like that

i always try to show them that i'm loyal for them in an annoying way

i babble alot and say personal stuff that i don't want anybody to know

after few days a new year start i don't want to be like that

i want to be respected i want them to feel like they want to be my friends as much as i am

Answer 1

you have to love yourself first, learn to value your like your parent vaue you.