How do i make a player fall for me? (sorry im asking again...)?

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How to date a player? HELP (interesting story)?( i need more answers!)?

Now, that was the understatement of the year… he’s more like a man w***e, but there’s this thing about him that makes me feel like it’s ok to be myself, he basically hypnotizes me, he gives me this warm feeling that no one else can… anyways I’m crazy about him, and he has shown interest in me, but the thing is even though I know he likes being with me, I’m just another one…

There are players and guys who have s*x because they are bored, he’s the second one, when we met I was in middle school and he was already in high school, we met in a party (the only teen party I ever been to) we flirted, he showed up in my house the next day, we made out and he was really respectful and we talked and really connected, he wanted to go out with me, but I already knew his rep. and I do not want to be cheated on, so I said no, but he came over to my house again even though I asked him not to because I told him I’d regret seeing him, we talked and we made out again and we were so happy (we were in a ottoman by the ocean =]) and before he left he told me not to regret it, and he was really respectful… he called, showed up at my house and school for two weeks even though I refused to see him.

Now we are going to the same school and he has been flirting with me, and we’ve been alone, but he hasn’t kissed me (he tried though). I really like him and I want to be with him, but he is always with other girls, he licks their faces right in front of me, he’s addicted to girls (among other stuff that really bothers me) how do I get him to like me and only me?

Answer 1

Begin talking to him, thats all you can do. If he licks other girls in front of you and things you do not agree with, walk away but so that he notices, ok? Dont worry if he cares abotu you he willl notice your missing presence and may come after you. Good Luck, and thank you for helping with my question =)

Answer 2

He won't.  Don't be an idiot, move on.

Answer 3

You've already written your own answer: "...even though I refused to see him." As long as he has to play the game on your terms, he'll be captivated by the hunt.

But Dear God, I hope you grow out of this before too much damage is done. Perhaps if you liked and respected yourself more, you would not be interested in him at all.

Answer 4

HAV A LOOOOOOOOOOOOONG TALK WITH HIM TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL U SHULDNT B SHY U ALREADY KISSED THE BOY TELL HIM IF HE WANTZ 2 PERSUE U HE SHULDNT l**k OTHER GIRLS FACES

U SHULD KNO THAT THATZ WAT PLAYERS DO THEY TRY TO MAKE ALL THE GIRLS LIKE THEM BY DIONG THINGS THAT THEY KNO GIRLS LYKE N WILL MAK GURLS WAN THEM EVEN MORE THAN THEY DO

DNT GET YOUR HEART BROKEN TALK TO SOMEONE ELSE WHILE YOU GO OUT WITH HIM

Answer 5

I like dis guy already, it sounds like he knows what he is doing. If your lookin for realtionship material, you wont find it in a player. We live for the game and when we leave the game we get rusty.

Answer 6

watch john tucker must die

that movie would be perfect to teach you

look attractive and make him want you

turn him down but one day say yes

DONT have s*x with him cuz them he got you

Answer 7

You have answered your own question here. You know he is a player, he is going to stay a player for a long time yet.

I read from your question that you a sophomore in high school, that you know he has sexual experiences with other girls and is looking for more experiences, that you don't have a problem having s*x with him, only that you don't want him having s*x with others during or after.

The thing that bothers me the most is your mention of his addiction to other 'stuff'. That could be anything from smoking to serious drugs. This is probably what will kill the relationship in the end anyway. Whether it is simply smoking or worse, you won't put up with it and he won't quit it for you or anyone else until he is ready to quit it for himself.

You are not going to get him to like you and only you. The only thing you have to offer that no other woman isn't giving him already is yourself, (who you are - not physical self). If you want the experience, take the experience if you are ready for it. Don't expect him to be anybody except who he is. I suspect that he likes what he is experiencing and will keep up the experiences until he is quite a bit older and wants to change his priorities to family and job. If you are looking for the 'experience' to be something special and cherished then find a different partner. Remember, parts are parts, it is the hearts that make it special.

Good luck

Answer 8

hmm i personally wouldnt trust him, but if you want to give it a chance then talk to him about it.. just tell him you dont want to be another chick he can brag about and if he doesnt like it then dont even bother giving him the satisfaction of hook ups which dont lead anywhere.. thats what hes looking for

Answer 9

have s*x with him then he will totally fall for you

Answer 10

Simple answer: DON'T! he will cheat... Once a cheater, Always a cheater.