How do i make my boyfriend feel guilty?

Question

i want to make him feel guilty that he went out to arizona with out me.. for a week..to go visit to of his guy friends.. plus he said he needed a little time away from vegas and his work.. i still cant beleive he left me here all alone.. im crushed.. i know he needed time away from us... but i would never do what he did.. i would understand if he left for a few days like 3 or 2 but a whole week just killls me.. now im all alone and missin him..what should i do to make him feel bad about him leaving me.?

Answer 1

If you are trying to make him feel guilty, then YOU are GUILTY for playing GAMES and guys typically don't like the games that women love to play, so just be happy for him and be there for him when you get back and plan your own girls only getaway sometime.

Take this time to reflect on YOU and the things you like to do, what were you doing before he came into the picture?

Answer 2

Get a life thats not tied up with you both .you both need your own space when you do different things other wise it becomes so borring.Having times apart refreshes the relationship

Answer 3

I think that you are just mad, and lonely right now. While he is away, you should be getting the alone time that you need. Take a bath, listen to music, get dressed and go out with your girlfriends, then come back and have girls night in. Re-refresh yourself, and don't press the issue that he went away, so he can wonder what you did all week. Also the time apart can be great for your relationships, so when he gets back, cook dinner, put on something s**y and give me a night to remember. Make him never want to leave you for a whole week again. It worked for me....

Answer 4

Don't.  That would be unfair and manipulative.  

He has every right to go visit friends for days or weeks at a time, and so do you.  It is not abandonment, and you are not "all alone" - you are fully capable of taking care of yourself, and you have friends and family of your own to keep you company (and if not, it's time you make some instead of demanding one person to be everything).

Tell him you miss him, and you would feel a lot better if he called you every couple days while he is away.  He is not a mind reader and doesn't know what you want unless you specificially tell him so.

Answer 5

Relax...he's coming back.  You need to put your insecurities aside and stop being so dang needy!  Guy's need a break sometimes especially to be with their boys.  It doesn't matter how good of friends you two are there are just some things he rather talk to his boys about than you.  Plus sometimes he just might want to gush about you so he needs someone different to tell.  Trying to make him feel guilty is just childish games.  You want to show him you can be an adult and mature about situations.  And that you are understanding and you TRUST him when he leaves for a couple of weeks to be with his friends.  If you play your games its going to lead to fighting and no man wants to feel smothered.   Me and my bf have a long distance relationship because of his work.  The longest we've gone without seeing each other was 6 weeks.  So man up and go buy some groceries to last three days... and when he comes home answer that door butt a** naked and have a three day s*x-ca-paid!! Remind him why he loves you and show him how fun, spontaneous, and beautiful, you are... Go get em girl!