How do i make my dad decise to move!?

Question

ok im 14 year old girl

i live in this shitttty apartment

all the ppl who live in these aparmtents say it is nice

but ppl at my school say

"omfg you live in the crack head aparmtents"

and all{ALL}my friends arent allowed to come over

and my town is rich

all the houses were my friends live are 400,000 dollers

my best friend her house is worth 1 million dollers

she has a pool inside

and im am the only person in my school who lives in an aparmtent

and most ppl dont like me b/v i am "gehhto"

but im not

im not cool at school

and before i lived here like 3 years ago

i was super popular,no one hated me,and i lived in a house

so how can i convince him

i tell him everyday

that i am misserable here,

i told him that this town sucks

i cry like EVERYDAY

not to just to be popular

i just want to be judged on who i am beside were i live

and dont tell me a story like

if they care were you live,they arent good friends

MY QESTION

is how can i convinced him

ps my parents are divorced

and i live with my dad

and these aparmtents are alwasy breacking,and my dad has to fix everything,he is the matance man(which is emmberessing)

i have no place to play outside

i wont be seen outside

and all my friends hang out by there house,rideing bikes,swimming

and they wont invite me around there rich friends

i just want to move

and my dad woks

he works from 12pm to 7 am in the moring

and them works from 9am to 8pm in the day

he works constilyny and he has 5 great jobs

but he just doesnt want to move

he says this town is great

but he just doesnt understand kids at my school come up to me and

say

freack

just b/c i live here

and I KNOW THEY HATE ME FOR WERE I LIVE

b/c they tell me that!

and im hopeing to move when i gradualte from high school

which is in 8 mounths or so

so brand new high school

anything is appreciated

thanks a bunch!!!!!!!!!!!1

Answer 1

ok ok ok i get it you are a crowd pleaser. You want everybody to like you for your stuff in your case your fathers stuff. You want people to like you for the wrong reasons. If they can't accept you the way you are then they should push on.  But something tells me it is not them it is you. So why don't you tell you lazy father to get ten jobs sell some socks sell a kidney or just drop dead because you don't need him you can get the big house by yourself.   Are you sure anything is appreciated?  You don't appreciate you father.  

Answer 2

Your Dad id doing the best he can for you right now. Lots of things happen when people get divorced. First off  you leave your home and try to start over. I know you feel bad that the kids don't like you but what about your Dad? This may be temporary and if those kids like you - where you live should not matter. Especially if its not going to be forever. This is a test for you.Stop believing those messed up materialistic kids and hold your head high! Start acting like you like YOU and not a sad victim . You can come out of this quite well but you have to believe in yourself and tell your father how much you appreciate him and what he is doing. God bless him because he chose to keep you instead of taking off . Where is your mother?

Get active in school activities and find other friends who will really be a good friend but you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get a plan. Get involved in school and get your education. There is a way out of this