How do i make my mom stop talking??

Question

she always talks!! and its not just that but she says mean stuff and doesn't stop for like 20 minutes. i don't say anything to her anymore because it always leads to her starting to talk and the talking leads to her saying how horrible i am as a daughter and the s*x talk. for example a few minutes ago:

i came home from outside and asked her where the glue is because i needed it because my summer project that i had to do for school was falling apart.

me: mom wheres the glue?

mom: how should i know you used it last (blah blah blah)........

..........half an hour later.........

mom: and that's why you should be a better daughter and learn more about life......

she was about to start the s*x talk but thankfully my sister came home and she left to talk to her.

Answer 1

Dear Lord, I know what you mean! D=

I turn my iPod all the way up and put the headphones on.

Dutch Ried's reasoning is flawed.  Why can moms give kids emotional abuse by calling her a bad daughter and c**p like that but they can't beat them?  Because people will see the latter, and then they'll get in trouble?

Answer 2

she is an unintelligent ,obnoxious  person that needs to see someone for counsel.  Find her some help and give her the phone #. Tell her why. my mom was like that her whole life, it just drove  people away from her and made her lonely.   seems to be more common in women  this whole  diarrhea of the mouth thing.

Answer 3

I had a friend like that...

Only thing her mother used to say that she HATES her..

I know right what kind of mom is that? o.O

Anywayy..

Just tell in her face : STOP TELLING ME TO BECOME A BETTER DAUGHTER, YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY THAT IM Like THIS!

ALLOT OF DAUGTHERS OUT THERE GET PREGNANT AT 13 OF AGE AND DO OTHER BAD STUFF AND THEIR MOTHER DOESNT GO ALL WILD..SO CAN YOU PLEASE START APPRICIATING ME MORE?..

Ok not precicsely like that but i mean it could help if u told her smt like that..

^-^

Answer 4

well consider the source, im amom, and honestly if she really says these things to you, shes AN IDIOT, but, she is a product of her environment, I guarantee you that your mom had parents who were a pain in te *** to deal with also, she is repeating their behavior because its how she was raised it is all she knows. If I were you, I would go directly to a guidance counselor at school and tell them alllllllllllllllll about your mom, the things she says etc, I bet your mom does not even realize how hurtful these things that she is saying are,  if she got a call from someone on her level, her age, it might just be a wakeup call for her the embarrasment alone would make her stop, i know if my daughter went outside of my home for help because I was acting like that I would think twice about doing it again, or you can print this and leave it where she will find it:

Dear Mom,

your daughter is reaching out to a world of strangers because she does not even feel comfortable to talk to her OWN MOTHER with out being judged, stop taking your life out on her be a MOM, GIVE HER GUIDANCE NOT DISSERTATIONS AND SPEECHES ABOUT LIFE! CHILDREN LEARN FROM EXAMPLE STO TELLING HER SHE SHOULD BE A BETTER DAUGHTER TAKE RESPONSIBILITY AND BE A BETTER MOTHER YOU KNOW d**n WELL IF GOD FORBID SOMETHING HAPPENED TO HER TOMORROW YOU WOULD REGRET TELLING HER SHE SHOULD BE A BETTER DAUGHTER HER BEHAVIOR IS  A DIRECT RESULT OF YOUR PARENTING BACK OFF THE KID BEFORE SHE REALLY GIVES YOU REASON TO BE ASHAMED OF HER, KIDS THRIVE ON PRAISE AND POSITIVE WORDS GO SEE A THERAPIST IF YOU NEED AN OUTLET for your NEGATIVITY!

SIGNED

CONCERNED MOM

Answer 5

It sounds like you and your mom should go to family counseling, I do not know why she rants maybe it is a nervous habit, but she will not know unless you or someone else tells her.

She is wrong to tell you she is disappointed in you, that causes you pain and that is not right. You are not her daughter to satisfy something for her. You are her gift and she should treat you like one. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she does not listen, then you go to your counselor and request peer counseling. It could be very beneficial to get help from people your age who are going through the same or similar things.

Answer 6

You can't change her. All you can do is say "I wish that I wasn't such a dissapointment to you' and walk away.

Answer 7

First of all,your mom can talk all she wants. She can also tell you she's not satisfied with you all she wants. Matter of fact,if she wants to make you a pinata,she should be able to.

That woman carried you for 9 months(more or less),fed you,raised you,wipe your stinky soiled diapers, woke up all hours of the night cause your *** wouldn't stop crying,made sure you had a place to live and clothes to wear,and I'm sure she had to work at the same time and try to have a life of her own. When the 'time' comes and you CAN'T hear her ranting and talking,it's going to be a sad day for you and you will never be the same. Unless of course,you really don't love your mom.

I hate when I hear kids complaining about there parents. Unless they beat you up,starve you,or treat you like complete sh-t,deal with it. If you can't, move out and get your own place. Until then, just say "Ok,mom. You got it mom. Anything you say mom."