How do i make out? i really need you helpp!?

Question

ok well.. ive asked this question before and ppl were like it comes natural and practice makes perfect

well i hooked up this summer and it was anything from natural.. i had no idea wat i was doing. and so welll... what do u do.? pls dont say practice makes perfect bcuz im just gonna keep hooking up badly and im gonna be a pro at being a bad kisser.. (fyi i dont want that)...or it comes natural becz it didnt..

soo what do it doo!!??

Answer 1

Unfortunately, while there’s no “right” way to kiss.  There are some things you should remember.

1. Be kissable. Use lip balm, especially if your lips tend to get dry and chapped. Soft lips are simply more inviting. Most importantly, nobody wants to kiss someone with bad breath, so carry some breath mints or gum with you, especially if you’re going out on a date. Breath mints are preferable, because you can use them in a pinch and not have to worry about getting rid of them. Be sure to stay hydrated, because a dry mouth is more likely to have bad breath. If you're going to a movie where candy a treat are necessary, bring an extra pack of gum. Drink water; other drinks (especially sweet ones) can leave an aftertaste that'll affect your breath, and some drinks (like milk) will linger in a bad way. Also, don't drink anything colored that might leave a ring around your mouth.

2)  Test the waters. Pay attention to signals that the other person is into you and is ready for a kiss. Do they brush up against you or frequently enter your personal space with playful, innocent touches? Has the subject of kissing come up in conversation? If you haven’t noticed any of these signals, but the person does seem “into you,” try discreetly and innocently breaking the touch barrier (guys will generally be very receptive to this). The key is to be subtle and to watch the other person’s reaction

Offer a mint, only after you've just had one. This can let the other person know what's on your mind, unless you offer them mints always. Glance at his or her lips. Don't stare, and don't do this when they're talking about something that's important to them.

3)  Wait for the right moment. There’s usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an on screen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected. Many  guys don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you’re doing and silently look into the person’s eyes for a moment or two. Touch their face, then gently pull him toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away or hesitates anytime, he is not ready for a kiss. If this happens, tell them that you want to give them a hug and go for that.

4)  Approach for the kiss. Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his  face).

5)  Kiss gently. There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There’s a time and place for all these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don’t press your mouth onto your partner’s--just let your lips meet--and don’t try to push your tongue into his  mouth. When your lips meet, pucker them and give a kiss, then smile and pull away a little, keeping your head close to your partner’s. If your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn’t pull away, go in for another kiss, this one a little firmer and longer. Put your hands on their face or around their shoulders. Make the kiss the reason for the kiss. Some people seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing or start putting their hands in inappropriate places. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don’t move too fast. Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like "What is he thinking about?", "Do I look good tonight?", or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours.

I hope that helps

Answer 2

do you have to do you have to do you have to let it linger?!

Answer 3

Kisses should be soft and subtle the tongue should glide slowly and gently into each others mouth.Every so often take a break from kissing on the mouth and kiss other places (no not there) neck nibble on the ears and then slowly work back to the mouth.Also gentle caresses will make the experience even better..Hope this helps

Answer 4

usually comes natural...

ummm....did for me....

Answer 5

just try to copy whatever he is doing

Answer 6

I'm going to watch this question because I'm curious too... but I think....in some way it would work because it would probably come naturally to one of you....maybe the guy? And maybe the guys think THEY messed up and not you? lol i dont know... but i'm curious for answers too... i'm too shy to get past a kiss that lasts about 6 seconds.. lol