How do i make sense of a uncertain girl?

Question

I met a girl a little over a week ago, and we have been great friends, we talk every day, text, see each other, she brought me some stuff from the store she works at, i gave her something from the store i work at, everything seems happy joyful, so i figure come friday the good thing to do would be to ask her out, so i asked her if she would like to hang on friday, she said "Definitly", so come friday she doesnt text me until like 930pm, and grant it i am pissed because we made plans, but she told me she was tired and that her mom was coming home, whatever. I was really mad. i knew this was bs, everyday she talks to me, texts me until midnight, all of this c**p that shows me shes interested, but then this?> well what the heck? so she continues to text me and laugh and talk about stuff, then come today i asked her if she wants to go get something to eat, she tells me she would but she made plans. Whats her deal? Does she simply want to be aquantinces? if so- why does she continue to text me 100 times a day from early in the morning to late at night. what is this all about?

Answer 1

Girls love to drive boys crazy.  We like to be chased and we want to see how far you'll go.

My advice is to back off.  Stop being so easily accessible.  Then maybe the chase will turn around and she'll have to pursue you for a change.  If you're too eager, you're too easy to take for granted.  Show her what a hot shot you are and don't jump every time she texts you.

Then she'll be feeling as crazy as you are right now.