How do i meet this guy i like?

Question

there is this guy i really like at my church but i haven't met him yet or even said hey!!! i really really want to meet him but i don't know what to say after i get past the part of actually telling each other our names!!! so what should i say to him after i tell him my name and what should i say to get him to talk to me???

Answer 1

After the service, go get a drink or something at the coffee place if you have one. If not, find an opportunity. Randomly wander up to him while he is alone with a drink in hand so you're a little more casual. Ask things like "did you like that service" and stuff. Don't pick a particularly boring day as you'll just look like an idiot, find something interesting to comment on. Talk to him for a while THEN introduce yourself. With a "Oh, I'm so and so btw." If you introduce yourself upfront; you'll look desperate.  

Answer 2

If you have never met him, then how do you know you like him? I think you just like the way he looks, which is totally fine, that's how most people decide if they like someone, myself included. Dont be surprised if you don't like him after you officially meet him though. You might want to walk over and say "Hey do you go to my school? You look familiar." Then he might say what school he goes to and you can say oh no I got to ________ and then you can say "I'm _________, by the way." And he will introduce himself and then you can say "Well I'd better get back to my seat." So that you dont seem to eager, and try to read his face. If he seems dissapointed, then after service, meet up with him and just talk about anything, like start off with, "Interesting sermon huh?" But if he doesnt seem to really care whether you leave or not, then he might not be interested, so you should probably just back off. Hope this helps, and good luck.    

Answer 3

Ever hear of the word"introduce"? Just introduce yourself to him,unless of course you are shy, it's not that hard, just say Hi hello My name is (what ever your name is) How are you doing?  and then go from there, now what you have is what is called  well something like "stagefright" an actor gets up on stage and he/ she is facing an audience and he/ she gets the heebie jeebies when he/ she has to speak to that audience the bottom line is you probably get nervous  and you start to stammer I know I,m the same way my self and it can be quite frustrating

Answer 4

bump into him and say sorry. then he will notice u. then the next tiime u see him if he has food in his hand, ask him where he got that. then u get ur food and while ur eating. than start a convo. or ask a friend to come over with u and talkt ohim  

Answer 5

talk about what has been going on in church. bring up families and try to get to know him.

Answer 6

well u should try to be friends with him before u start that kind of a relationship, see if he's really the kind of guy that u would want to be with. as for getting him to talk to u just being nice is the first thing and if u really wont to get to know him don't act like u think he's cute, or he'll either curl up in a shell and ignore u or he'll start trying to impress u, and when that happens u'll find that he wont let u get to know him. but it really depends on what kind of guy he is around girls, if he's the kind of guy that is shy and doesn't really know what to say, then go slowly and don't push him to talk to u, if u just talk like u wont to get to know him as friend s then he'll open up soon enough. BUT FOR GOODNESS SAKE DON'T TRY TO FLIRT!! AT ALL.

but if he's out going and kind of show offish, then joke around but still try to be nice and understanding, and don't act like u like him, just friend at first, he might start to back off if u do.

but no matter what his personality, at least at first talk to him when he's not around his friends or family, he'll probably feel embarrassed  or ar at least unwilling to talk to a girl if people he hangs out with r around. he'll probably be scared they'll tease him about it.

Answer 7

You can try:

How long have you been coming here for?

So where are you from?

you can talk about the weather

you pretty much just need an icebreaker. Once that has been done then you can kind of feed off from there. Try to comment on something in the church to spark conversation im sure he will be happy to speak to you aswell.  

Answer 8

just ask him where he goes to school/work etc and what hes interested in!

guys love talking about themselves so just ask him lots of stuff about him! hehe good luck :)

Answer 9

well, be friendly to him and be your self ,,  

Answer 10

Hey :),  I have experienced this before with a few lassies, so what helped me was, that i took a deep breath and think whats the worst can happen, so you just go over to the guy, and Say hey and pick a topic of whatever then ask him his name and then you'll start to become friends then you'll build up to a relationship