How do i point this out to my mom without saying it forward!?

Question

i have a younger brother and he is the most annoying thing ever! i remember when i first started hanging out with a group of friends he would aways have to come. I would be like 'mom why does he have to come. i know that hes my brother but im hanging out with MY friends there not his' and sometimes my friends would back me up but it just made my mom pissed and she comes up with a great comeback to make us take him. and now its been about 2 years and nothing has changed! my friends always badger me and say 'why does ur brother have to come' and now hes smart enough to come home and tell my dad everything that we say. its gotten old

does anybody have ideas for me to show my mom that me and my friends are tired of my brother hanging out with us?

Answer 1

if i were you

i would plain out tell them

hes not comming with me anymore

its not guna happen

im done ive done this c**p for two years

hes ur son

not mine why do i have to take him everywhere

but thats just me i get into trouble a lot for my mouth...

and im very blunt about things so this is what i would seriously

say but if its too mean for u i really dont kno what i would do

sorry

lovelovelove

Audrey

=)

Answer 2

doesnt he have any friends....?? n its kinda weird for ur mom to get pissed off for not taking ur brother along... or do something with ur fiends so that your brother would beg to stay home the next time??  

Answer 3

How about bringing him home with a makeover? Or with a pretty pink manicure?And maybe all the girls start calling him Alice?  

Sounds cruel - and probably is - but if you've tried reasoning and it doesn't work it might be time to step up your game. Have you tried embarrassing him by talking about 'female' issues?  

Answer 4

I feel so sorry for you. Maybe the next time you go out (of course you will have to take your brother) with your friends, just ignore your brother. It might be mean but that's probably the only way he won't come along. If you and your friends ignore your brother than he will get bored and not want to go with you guys anymore. probelem solved! I hope my advice helped.

Answer 5

tell him your getting mature and dont need a little brother tailing along its your friends and not his. and say how would you like it I went with my brother with his friends.

Answer 6

Try suggesting a compromise, you take him with you this time and that time and the other times you can go without him.  Be very logical and don't get emotional.  The more you can make this an adult conversation the better off you'll be.  

Explain that altho you love your brother and enjoy spending time with him there are times when having him with you and your friends makes this awkward for everyone.  

Answer 7

TELL HER YOU ARE GETTiN OLDER AND MATURE..! AND U DONT NEED A LiTTLE BROTHER FOR U TO WATCH WHiLE U ARE TRYiN 2 HAVE TiME WiTH YOUR FRiENDS AND HAVE FUN..! TELL HER iTS A BREAK FROM HiM U ALWAYS HAVE 2 HAVE HiM COME ALONG YOU NEED A BREK..!

Answer 8

Well First of all tell ur friends just to CHILL OUT!!! and tell ur mom ur older and try to act responsible! if ur friends fell that way their not friends! THINK........ who is more important ur brother or ur friends.Dont kick him out just causes hes younger.Just to tell u ur lucky cause i dont have a bro any more so....think about that