How do i quit mastrubating and watching p**n please help.?

Question

I am 13 and i cannot quit mastrubating and it is getting in the way of my christianity. please give me any advice or sites thank you please this is very urgent i feel terrible.

Answer 1

By pushing the stop button and letting go of your p***s. How does a 13yr old get p**n away? It's not free online anymore.

Answer 2

It's the normal stage of puberty in guys.. I am still doing it even after passing the puberty stage.. Daily!! Keeps me active..

Answer 3

its not a bad thing.since your christian like me,you may think its immoral and i used to think the same but think of it this way,is it worse than killing or stealing or lying.its not but to stop masturbating,try to find another activity or join a sport.when its baseball season masturbation for me decreases.or you can go to a place where there is lots of people so your not alone and you wont get the urge to m********e.

Answer 4

chop it off.

Answer 5

http://boysunderattack.com/masturbation-...

Just go to that site and read about it.

Answer 6

Find some kind of activity  that is gonna make you busy and away from youre PC. Start doing something fishing biking hang out with friends.OR be more active in church youth grops and stuff.  

Answer 7

wait about fifteen minutes thats how long urges are usually for or else just  get up and run  or do push ups

Answer 8

i turned to a sport mine was boxing if i even had the urge to do it id go run a mile or hit the heavybag basically getinto a sport or activity or make ur self do something you hate if you want to do it

but summer is gonna be there hardest time for you to stop with friends possibly away and no school that ocuppys 7 hours of  doing it

Answer 9

i feel you are same me when i was 13. At that time, i got used to looking for a good friend that make me more comfortable and i had one. Therefore, u can do same way!

In the other hand, The WHO have been supporting with masturbating because it can help us prevent infectious diseases such as AIDS

Answer 10

I am adamently against someone your age watching p**n, but I'm not going to rant at you, I just think it's unhealthy for young, developing minds.  

I struggled with the same thing with masturbation and my Christian beliefs, and a lot of us do.  I don't believe there's anything wrong with it - either you take care of it or your body will on its own.

If you're determined to stop, you need to begin doing two things:  find some other activity to occupy your mind (and hands) and try very hard to decrease the number of times you do it a day.  Then try to start skipping a day, then two, and so on.  Don't be upset with yourself for sometimes giving in.  This is a very difficult habit to give up.

Answer 11

That stuff really isn't a big deal.

Answer 12

sit on your hands

Answer 13

The best thing to do is reduce the amount you m********e a day until you don't have the desire to m********e anymore. As for the p**n, put a lock on your computer so you can't access it anymore, thus taking away the temptation. If you need anymore advice, email me. Hope this helps.

Answer 14

dude, you shouldnt feel terrible because there is nothing wrong with wat your doing. im 15 and thought that it was bad but now i do it all the time because its no big deal.

e-mail me if you have any question/

Answer 15

Nothing wrong with masturbating, its completely natural.  Watching p**n on the other hand can be replaced with imagination with self control.  But I personally see nothing wrong with p**n; God doesn't ban internet p**n in the bible last time i checked.

Answer 16

guys if you would know before going all its normal or theres nothing wrong with it, it is a sin to m********e and watch p**n within the christian religion, i mylself do both and am part of the catholic-christian church and from time to time i do feel bad about it cause i also do have a girlfriend who we have already had slept together so theres a big no no but.. to answer the question :P

a way to try and give up cold turkey is just really to try your hardest, keep your mind active and away from sexual thoughts, go out with friends or get caught up in a video game. i know sometimes theres that urge but if u feel bad enough for it you will know what to do, just try and not think about it. it is going to be very hard to five it up cold turkey but if you feel so strongly im sure you can do it no problem

Answer 17

this is a typical concern for Christian guys--teenagers and adult males. 1st--remove all websites that offer free or whatever p**n

2. move the computer to an open space where everyone could see what you are  doing on it--the bad thing with porno is that it gives a false idea of sexuality, creates an illusion, pushes the viewer to deeds that are deemed immoral

3. just try to take short showers--don't rub to long--pubic area, try not to get erect when taking a shower, don't wash the head too long otherwise you just go back to it--masturbation.

4. go to sleep as fast as you can so that you won't think about "it" once you have the thought of masturbating the odds are against you.  Remember what a disciple said--for there are to forces within me--one wants to do what's right and the other not.  

5. Avoid being alone at home--the sense of being alone might "push' you to m********e "I'm alone now"

6. and when you fall to your weakness ask God to forgive your sin--for whosoever confesses his sin it will be forgiven and he who hides his sin it will not be forgiven.  

Hope this helps.