How do i say something to someone i dont even know who gives off a strong vibe that they like me?

Question

This has been a problem for me for awhile. Im not a "chick magnet" by any means and im not exactly the most social person. It's hard for me to find other girls who might be into me or something to that extent. As for most people every now and then you'll be in the mall or a public place and you'll take note to someone looking you down or giving you devious stares, or just simply giving off the "hey im inot you" vibe...if this happens and if i think the person is into me should i give them my number or myspace or should i play it safe and not say anything just incase they are straight.

Answer 1

A note with your number seems totally okay, perhaps saying something like, "if you would like to have coffee or a drink give me a call."  If the person is straight, they will probably feel flattered, but if you are shy then just hand it to them and walk away, you might just get stopped with a "How about now?"  I think your intuition about them being "into you' is usually right on and you could be missing out big time by not taking the shot.  I hope it works out.

Answer 2

Get closer and talk to her, have a nice chat (about non sexual things).

Praise her and tease her slightly to see how she reacts.

Ask her for her phone number.

When you become fast friends you may hug her (at the right moment) to see if she tries to get out.

If you feel she's also into you, then make the big move.