How do i say sorry to my girlfriend for upseting her ? (Need help asap please)

Question

(15) . Well basically my girlfriends friend told me that my girlfriend likes someone else called dan. So i just said by text, do you like someone else, as a question and she answered no, and how could you think that. Now shes ignoring me and wont speak to me at all, i tryed to phone her and text her and she wont pick up or text me. I cant speak to her in person till tuesday so i need help in apologising and saying things that will go towards an apology before then on msn or over the phone or text. I cant explain in words how much i love her though, i would never ever want to lose her ever. :( Please help :). Thankyou

Answer 1

For god's sake go round to her house with a big bunch of flowers and a box of chocs. Stop all this texting malarky as it is so impersonal and people can take texts the wrong way. Tell her that you did not mean to upset her but it was HER "friend" who told you this information. It seems to me that this "friend" is trying to stir things between you, so go on get round there, tonight!! Good luck.

Answer 2

well if my boyfriend upsets me and keeps constantly ringing and texting me afterwards i find it really annoying. I would give her some time and come up with something really meaningfull. Explain how she makes you feel when your with her and say how much u love and adore her. What u did was bad but she will get over it.

Answer 3

write her a letter, put it in an envelope with her name on it, and put it through her letterbox. just tell her why you thought that and be honest. maybe her friend is jealous of the relationship she has with you and wanted to cause trouble.

Answer 4

First of all... are you sure her friend is being honest, in telling you what she did?

Secondly, the silence could answer your question,that maybe she does like this other guy and does'nt want to face up to the fact with you.

Answer 5

I think that means she does. If she didn't she's have denied it.

Answer 6

write her a really sweet email pouring your feelings out. it works, trust me!

and next time dont listen to her friends!

Answer 7

Just her actions towards you are actions of someone who is guilty  & got caught.  She no doubt even knows the person who told you this..Now she feels guilty & is ignoring you for THAT reason.  If she asks where you got the info from, I'd be honest & tell her.  She knows who she told & where it came from.  But trust me on this, she's acting this way because she knows what you say is the truth, & that what you're saying is that she just got caught in a lie.  It's up to her to contact you, as she is the one who is in the wrong, not you!  Why should you appologize for something she lied about?!  Give her time to think about it & she should be the one to admit SHE was the one in the wrong...Good luck to you...:)

Answer 8

I honestly can't get past the part that you txted her such an important question. I would have been insulted just on that part.

Answer 9

tell her the truth, say you had a friend of hers come to you and told you about it, say you are not acusing her of it your just concerend and scared of losing her so you asked her because you want to no the truth and dont want people coming up to you telling you about it,

say you really love her and how much she means to you.

if that doesnt work. what my boyfriend did when we argued ones is he sent me a long 7 page text saying how much i means to him and how much he was sorry for upseting me. i got such a smile from it i had to text him back because he put so much effort in.

so try doing some thing like that she will most prob text you straight back.

Answer 10

Firstly try not listening to "friends or friends of friends" gossip that be a good place to start, why can't you you see her until tuesday? is she that far away from you?

A word of advice if you cannot get to see her, get on the telephone never mind text, msn, facebook or pigeon post and do some serious grovellling and maybe when you do see her on tuesday a bunch a flowers may be a good way to go as well.

and stop relying on text and msn to ask girls questions like that i think its very impersonal and also stop listening to other people and learn to trust your girlfriend.

Good luck

Answer 11

sorry but her reaction is way out of line with your question

at a guess I'd say she is someone elses gf and not told you yet

Answer 12

well just say that ur friends just heard somethings and u thought it was true and bring her presents and flowers and that u r srry  4 thinking dat and maybe ur gf friends say dat 2 make ur gf and u break up idont know dude see ya lol