How do i start a fresh start ???

Question

i'm a 19 year old college girl

in the uni i'm the most low-self esteem you will ever meet

whatever my friends ( classmates is a better name for them )

say i agree with them ... even if i have another opinion

i always feel that i have to agree with them and like the same things that they like to make them like me

it doesn't make sense but i can't help it

i hate that i'm like that

i always try to show them that i'm loyal for them in an annoying way

i babble alot and say personal stuff that i don't want anybody to know

after few days a new year start i don't want to be like that

i want to be respected i want them to feel like they want to be my friends as much as i am

Answer 1

Guest 6742-it 's beacuse you are not confident in yurself and yu just let peole walk all over you. I useto be friends with this girl who was EXACTLEY what you just descriibe yourself as. And none of us could take it, we would always she didn't and to this day she still doesnt and the peole that are "friends"with her talk smack and make fun of her behind her back.

I say the best way to start fresh in to learn how to trat yourself with respect and to just be good to yourself- Go for a mani/pedi, splurge on your facourite shampoo; get a few new outfits-don't let others intimate you. you do have a mind of your own and you need to use it. Sometimes in life you can't just agree with everyone about everything. If you have an oppinion say it- it's an oppinion you didnt do anything wrong. And for the personal issue just try to hold back, if you have a close friend schedule a tie that you two can grab a coffee or something and just talk. Sometimes giving too much personal information turns people off . You need to belive in yourself.:)