How do i start to find him???

Question

my brother was addopted like seventheen years ago it was an open one but when he turned three the parents put a stop to it all no more photo`s where sent to my mam......she didnt want to give him up but because she said she would when she go pregnant they made her do it and sign the papers ................. my mam want him to find her but i dont think that he will cos he has two other step sisters who say they have been in contact with him and they wont tell us anything is so unfair that they could get all the information and we cant .....

any ways was wondering if you could tell me some sites that i could try and get statred .......

thanx and im in ireland!!!!!

Answer 1

Get your mother to place details on any registry - saying that she wishes for contact - so if he starts looking for her - hopefully - they'll be 'matched' up.

Get in touch with these people -

http://www.norcap.org.uk/home.asp

and

http://www.uktrackers.co.uk/index.htm

You may have to wait until he is 18 to apply for info from government departments - but at least you can get things started - and find out what channels you will need to go through.

I wish you all the very best.

Answer 2

You should visit the UK adoption registry. I've included a link which has all of the information you guys will need to get started.

However, I should caution you that if he is still under 18 it is illegal for your mother to try and make contact with him. Once he turns 18, however, she can use any resources she wants.