How do i stay hard with a condom on?

Question

I tried having s*x for the first time last night but i couldn't say hard. She put on the condom for me and i got soft, she even tickeled the h**l out of my balls and then she licked my ear. I know nothing is wrong with me because she can get me hard just by kissing me and i can stay like that for the entire night. When i did eventually get it hard, i went inside but it quickly got soft again, is there a type of condom i should use that would help because I felt really bad that i couldnt pleasure her because i got her so wet and horney, and this also makes me feel impotent as a man.

Answer 1

Losing your erection is a common problem if you are not used to condom use. Try practising putting it on yourself to get used to the feeling that goes with it which you may find quite exciting the first few times, If you are not circumcised, remember to pull the f******n back fully and hold it there until you get the condom in place so that you can enjoy the full stimulation of your head and inner f******n thro' the condom. You need to experiment to see which type you like best because there are so many. Many guys like the really thin ones because they transmit so much more sensation and body heat.

Condoms tend to  be easier to use if you are circumcised because they don't roll off as you move your p***s  i n and out.If you have a tendency to "come" too quickly because you are nervous, wear two condoms. Also remember that using a bit of lubricant on the glans(head) makes the rubber slide on better and gives you more sensation thro' the rubber. Masturbating with a condom on a few times is one way of finding out which kind of condom you prefer. You can order samples of condoms of various types before you definitely go with a particular type or style.

Good luck and always use them with a partner.

Answer 2

Going limp had nothing to do with the condom, more likely just mental issues that many guys have--fear of ejaculation and pregnancy, and those can be subconcious thoughts you can't control. Just have patience and you'll do fine.

Answer 3

contrary to what that first guy said, DONT wear 2 condoms.  the friction can cause them to break and thats worse then being soft

Answer 4

Since it was your first time having s*x, your nerves probably overtook you. Just relax your body and mind when having s*x and putting  the condom on just added to the tension. As soon as you get an erection, try putting the condom on and let anything that makes you nervous. She probably understands and if you all talk, you all could figure a way to take away the nervousness so you both can enjoy sexual intercourse. Hope this helps.