How do i stop being jealous when men are checking out my wife?

Question

i know its not her fault, i no im the problem but i dont know how to change it of fix it! can anyone help

Answer 1

I don't know how old you are but I'm assuming your in your 20's or 30's you know what they say it's one or two reasons why your that way.You could be cheating on your wife and your afraid she is doing to you what your doing to her. It also could be your so insecure thinking your not good enough for her and she will leave you. I have been through it myself with my husband and i can tell you i came real close to leaving my husband over his jealously. I started feeling like a prisoner and being watched every time i went out. He is 50 now and much much better then before i guess the fact that I'm older now helps.

Answer 2

Stop being a jealous husband sure all those guys are checking her out, but just think you have her and they only wish they could get into her sack

Take care and relax you have the babe.

Answer 3

Become a Muslim and cover her from head to toe in one of those hooded bath robes

Answer 4

There's very little you can do about how you feel, but I hope you are keeping your reaction to this in check. My husband can get like this, but I have learned that if I am touching him (holding his hand, holding on to the belt-loop of his pants, ect) that he pretty much lets it go. If anybody makes it too terribly obvious, I kiss him and get a little more clingy. That makes him smile and he lets it go. I chose him and don't even notice anybody else much less whether or not they're looking. I'm pretty sure your wife feels the same. She chose you - lucky you.  

Answer 5

I used to get that way.  In my case it was because I was afraid that one of those guys would show her attention and then she'd like them and leave me.  So for me it was FEAR.  For me I got over it when I realized that my wife had chosen ME and vowed to ME to be mine only.  I had nothing to fear - the jealousy went away (mostly, but it is manageable now).

Answer 6

I don't know how to help but just make sure you don't take it out on her because it isn't her fault if people think she is beautiful because actually you should really be glad she is getting checked out at least you know she isn't ugly.

Answer 7

It is apparent that your wife is attractive, if she is being checked out all the time...you should be proud not jealous.  Do you trust your wife?...if you do then there should not be any problem there...if not you have other issues to address!

Answer 8

dont be that jealous . if you  trust that;s okey.

Answer 9

When they're checking her out, grab her hand, or kiss her. And remember that she loves you, and that she doesn't care about those other guys; otherwise she wouldn't be married to you.  

Answer 10

you can't stop being jealous....you either feel it or you don't......All you can do is .. 1 ) keep from letting your wife see it .....2 ) try to do the right things so she never wants to check out one of these guys in return.

Answer 11

It is a sign that your wife is a fine beautiful woman. Congratulations! You have to work on the trust that you have built in her. Present yourself to her in a way that you ARE the answer to all her needs. Once you have captivated your wife and she has given you the respect that you deserve, you have her in the palm of your hands. No need to check her cellular or papers falling out of her purse. You have to make yourself THE MAN and when she is out, she rushes coming back to papa. I just gave you the key to my happiness and worry-free life.

P.S-- My wife does not rush coming back when she goes to the mall. There is an exception somewhere.