How do i stop being so insecure about myself?

Question

How do i stop being so insecure about myself?

Answer 1

write a list of all the things that are good in your life.

eg. the things you like about your personality, your looks, how many friends you have or your intelligence.

Add at least one new thing every day!!! It really works!!!

Hope this helps! :)

Answer 2

stop worrying about yourself so much, you think that people really care about others any more, h**l no. there to rapped up in trying to find the same clothes that there wearing on mtv

Answer 3

you only have to believe in yourself, wake up everyday saying , I'M GREAT, I'M GOOD, etc, etc.!!!

Answer 4

Hiya, you need to write down all of your good points, and before you say you haven't got any believe me you have.  Then every day before you leave the house, read them to your self out loud and believe them!

Take care and good luck.

Sarah

Answer 5

ask yourself that question!!

Answer 6

Find something your good at. Give yourself credit for doing well. Look in the mirror and list everything you like about yourself. Don't beat yourself up or think badly of yourself. It's all about paradigms. A paradigm is the way in which you see something. Make sure you see yourself for you =).  

Answer 7

Read Dr. Phil's book, "Self Matters". It'll get you on the road to liking yourself, for sure.

Answer 8

I was insecure like you,

and then' I found out a secret....every one is insecure...everyone

instead of being upset at work due from banter from my colleagues

I soon realised that those who dished it out' became withdrawn when I retaliated in fun at them.

You must comprehend that in every one, there is a Achilles heel

everyone is not as they appear on surface,  

So my advice to you is....blend with the insecure  and my best wishers

Answer 9

confront & deal with your fears.  

Answer 10

this may seem starnge but FAKE IT.

if you play the role of a confident successful person then othert people will view you as one and treat you accordingly.

their belief in your confidence will further bolster your confidence.

Answer 11

By connecting to the center of your body, also called tantien or hara, it is our power center. You can start with trying to feel a presence there, 1 inch under your navel, inside your belly, in the middle.

And then try to be aware of it, whatever you do, walk, work dance, carry something, washing dishes...as much as you can.

It is a kind of inner anchor. When you are connected to this place inside you, you feel secure and with time, powerful, centered, efficient, concentrated, rooted...happy!

Read about connecting yourself to your inner power here: http://www.whitemagicway.com/chi-energy....

Practice and enjoy!

Answer 12

By valuing yourself more than you value the opinions of other ppl.  

You have to start liking yourself more for who you really are and stop trying to be someone you're not just because you think that image will make ppl like you more.  

Answer 13

THINK POSITIVE ALWAYS

PRAY GOD N THINK ALL GOOD THINGS YOU HAVE

FEEL PRESENCE OF GOD OR THE PERSON IN WHOM U HAVE FAITH N TRUST

TALK TO YOUR SELF BRAVELY

READ BRAVE N ENERGETIC PERSONS STORIES & LISTEN YOUR FAVOURITE MUSIC

TAKE FEW LONG BREATHS,WHILE INHALING FEEL THAT POSITIVE ENERGY IS CHARGING YOUR BODY N MIND & WHILE EXALING FEEL THAT ALL NEGATIVE ELEMENTS OR THOUGHTS ARE GOING OUT FROM YOUR BODY N MIND

Answer 14

every day look in the mirror and say "i am a good person and i deserve to be happy" works wonders mate :P