How do i stop caring what people think of me? i wanna have an extremeley strong character like people from ?

Question

civil rights era who knew that standing up for what they believed in would cost them there life or any one who is willing to die for what they believe in.

i really admire people who go after what they want even if it means going through uncomfortable situations. there are some people who keep going no matter whatim not like that do you think its genetic or can i build that type of character. there are some people no matter how much abuse or humiliation they go through they keep moving forward.

i wanna become an extremist in everything i do.

when someone has an extremley strong character and there personality is developed can you tell by the way they carry themsellves before you hear them speak or know anything about them

Answer 1

Your called bomber and you want to be an extremist? grow up and live in the real world.

Anyway you can only be who you are, not what you aren't.

Answer 2

easiest way to do it is to just go get your feet wet.  

you can start with something as simple as clothing, when your comfortable walking the streets with people looking at you then talk to them, then eventually you'll "grow the cojones" you'll need to stand up for what you believe in.  

Answer 3

there is nothing wrong with careing of what people think of you

in fact it can help you become a better person

and about civil rights ,lets take martin luther king for an example     he cared about what people thought of him he made his move to influence them to do the right thing

Answer 4

There is a saying.

If you think you can you will.

If you think you cant you are right.

Positive thinking my girl.

Try telling yourself every single morning. No matter what happens I can handle it!

Do this for a minimum of thirty days and I promise you... things will change as you start to believe it and your confidence will grow.

Have faith.

It takes a while to engrain the idea into your mind.

In much the same way negative comments can distroy our confidence.

You see what I mean?

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Answer 5

Being an extremist and having a strong character are not necessarily synonymous. But I know what you mean. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. knew for several years before he was assassinated that he lived with constant death threats. He spent days and even weeks at a time in jail for his beliefs. Nelson Mandela spent about 27 YEARS in prison for his outspoken beliefs against apartheid in Africa. But he came out victorious. Mohandas Gandhi went on many hunger strikes while he was the Prime Minster of India to get the British out of India. You are obvious young and have yet to find your cause.

Decide what your cause is, study, and become very well educated in what your cause is and why you believe so strongly in it. Never use violence. The greatest change in history has come about through means of non-violence. Guns cause fear, not real and lasting change.

I am so with you. I remember when I was young and wanted to take on the world too. Pick your battles carefully and stick with them. Make it your lifelong goal to change an injustice.

Answer 6

You can go after what you want without being an extremist.  Just have a goal in mind  -  even better if it is something you are so enthusiastic about that you excel.  Once you do, people will accept you as being an authority in that area and will look up to you for your sincerity and achievement.  You don't have to be willing to die in the process.  Besides, can't you be much more effective if you are alive and working FOR something than dead and not able to do a d**n thing about it???

Answer 7

You are very angry at something or somebody at the moment do not try to be what you are not . Leaders and strong character's are born that way they do not develop . It is the law of nature and it is certainly not all plain sailing and roses, when you are that way you become isolated from the rest of your peers it creates jealousy even hatred , Take it from one who knows its very lonely up here . Develop your strengths , look for friends with the same interests as yourself however weird or natural that they are , Never be ashamed of who you are . Look at life as a great adventure , And if other do not like you let them lump it ,And never look for destruction  or you will certainly find it

Answer 8

I don't think that you ever stop really caring about what people think of you, no matter what people might say. Strength of character comes from self belief and experience. The great people of the past went through what they did because they believed with every fibre of their being that what they were doing was the right thing to do. Thanks to their sacrifices we are now in the fortunate position to have discussions like this. As for the person that said the old aphorism ' violence never solved anything', that's rubbish, the main and most fundamental change that the modern era has undergone came about through world war two where millions of people who  believed with every fibre of their being that what they were doing was the right thing to do, laid down their lives so that we can now live in a relatively safe world.