How do i stop getting so angry at my mother?

Question

i guess as a teenager its almost required lol.

no but seriously, i am almost always fighting with her. everything she says seems like she's criticizing me, and constantly bugging me about school, and since im going to be a junior, sats and all that.

Answer 1

I know it's hard to not get angry when you have so much going on and someone is constantly irritating you about the same things. Just try to ignore it, or sit down and talk to her about it & vent your feelings to her and you will feel better about yourself & hopefully your mom will understand. Good luck!

Answer 2

I wish I had this problem.  This is sad, but imagine if you didn't have her anymore.  I lost my mom when I was 17 and really all the fussing we did ended up not being important.  I cried at her bed and told her that I wished we hadn't fought so much, and she smiled at me.  Told me that it was not a big deal.  ALL mothers and daughters clash.  Try not to feel too bad about that, but still don't go overboard with it either.  Never tell her you hate her.  Never be disrespectful.  Love your Mom and appreciate her as long as you have.  

And about the criticizing and bugging..... Just try to be calm and honest about how that makes you feel.  Like.... "Mom, that hurts my feelings when you say things like that".  

Answer 3

Teenagers always think they know it all "I used to be one of them". It's all in your head just to be against your mom in advance, even before she is done telling you what to do or not to do. Before you do a move think about the positive as well the negative reasons why your mom is saying something, perhaps you will realize what she is saying at the end is just for your own benefit. After all you live in her house so I say you should play by her rules, and at last if you are happy to be a live well think about the fact that you are here thanks to your!!!???? mom!!!

PS. Don't put too much pressure on you being a teenager is hard.

Good luck!!