How do i stop looking or searching for love?

Question

thanks for sharing.

Answer 1

Before you know it - love will find you - YOU do not find IT!   That's just the way it is.

CJ

Answer 2

I am told daily, that my thinking is erroneous.  I did not stop looking or searching, but based on my romantic history, realized that I make very bad decisions when it comes to women.  I usually wind up giving up something to make a relationship work.  My spontaneity, my humor, my individuality, and my freedom to pursue my interests have all been sacrificed some time or another.  Now, when I find myself in a possible romantic situation, I ask, "What am I willing to give up for this?"  And my usual answer is if I don't get involved, I don't have to give up anything....So I have a lot of lady friends, but am not romantically involved  with any of them.....It is quite possible that I have just gotten to the point that I am afraid to take the chance.....

Answer 3

The best way to find love is to love yourself and find what you need within.  Then you will no longer need to search.

Answer 4

Never.

Why would you want to stop being open to it?

Answer 5

See it all around and within you. It's there.

Answer 6

Just stop.

Pretend your married.  

Answer 7

Turn your libido to something creative, a special project, art, music, science, literature, religion or whatever intrigues you the most.  

Answer 8

Don't ever stop! That would mean you give up, and you should never give up on love. :)

Answer 9

you stop right now focus on other things and it will come to you popping out of nowhere. It always works.  

Answer 10

When you get your thinking on other things of interest.

Like,Volunteer work, Church groups, Walking your dog in the park.

Be happy & positive and keep a smile on your face.

In time it becomes a habit.

Guess what ?? Do the above & you just might

Find LOVE Coming out of the Woodwork.

I've been there & raised 5 grown children

that have been there as well.

Good luck & blessing to you.~~~~

Answer 11

If you stop looking Hon, it will come to you.  Don't try so hard. Good Luck! X

Answer 12

Don't worry it will find you.

Answer 13

I stop looking for it after ever man that I found and thought that I loved ended up cheating on me no matter how good he was treated at home. Now I could care less about men. I live alone and happy doing so as well. Even if I was to find a man, I would more than likely lose him since I don't trust men now. So I have stopped looking for it all together.

Answer 14

If love is what you want, don't stop looking.  Keep yourself open to it, love seems to show up when it's least expected.

Answer 15

Keep your heart open, but don't obsess. Love will find its way to you, don't worry.  

Answer 16

You don't. Love seems to be a deep desire of yours, just like many people, but understanding of love come first, to know when you are, or when you're not. Until the day you recognize it, you will never FEEL it.

Don't give up, it's out there!

Answer 17

Don't force square pegs into round holes.

What am I saying. Not every time you come across someone that you find appealing is it meant to be the right person. You have to be patient with yourself. You must not assume the best or worst but rather allow the relationship to flow on its own. Don't always look at that person with google eyes.

Love will find you if you allow it.  

Answer 18

Why do you want to stop. Oh no don't do that, but although you can't make it happen there's no harm in looking don't make yourself a try hard though or frighten people off from the way you approach the matter. Charm and friendlyness is what's needed

Answer 19

By accepting that love is an elusive butterfly.

Be still  - and it may  land on your shoulder.

Answer 20

Lady Jexie's got it ! ! !   Listen to her advice ! ! !  

Answer 21

Have your heart broken a couple of times.  That'll stop you from even considering it!

Answer 22

Look in the mirror only.

Answer 23

Never give up!

Answer 24

disillusionment------by the time you have reached the seniors section you begin to realise that it is not going to happen. It has long passed by if there ever was a chance !