How do i stop my best friend?

Question

she`s been having alot of prolems in her marriage lately , she asked her husband to go to counseling and he won`t go. Now she`s meeting off and on another guy she din`t have s*x with him yet but i know it won`t be long untill they do . Any advice how to stop her?

Answer 1

This is tough for you because she is in a state where she may not react well to your butting in, but you have to do it.  She needs to know your feelings about the situation and that if she feels her marriage is at a dead end then she needs to bring it to a close before she gets involved with someone else.  

Guys are stubborn and won't easily admit they need help, at least in most cases.  If you don't think he is wanting to end the marriage then you should tell her that she needs to give her husband an ultimatum.  He needs to know that she is going to file for divorce if he doesn't seek some professional help with her.  Either way, this will be fair for both of them.  She doesn't want to fall into the cheating thing or she will never be happy and her stress level will grow beyond repair.  In other words, grab her by the ear and say listen up!  Good luck...