How do i stop my two year old from fighting me and others?

Question

WHEN MY SON DOES SOMETHING WRONG LIKE HITTING ME OR ANY ONE AND I PUT HIM IN A TIME OUT HE HITS ME EVEN MORE AND HE SOMETIMES GETS OUT OF CONTROL WITH IT AND RIGHT NOW HE GOES BACK AND FORTH FROM MY HOME TO THE FOSTER HOME AND THEY HAVE OTHER CHILDREN AND THE FOSTER PARENTS SAY HE FIGHTS THEM AS WELL AND I'LL BE STARTING SCHOOL SOON AND HE'LL BE COMING HOME FULL TIME WITH IN THE NEXT WEEK OR TWO AND WHILE I'M IN SCHOOL HE'LL BE IN DAY CARE SO HOW DO I GET THIS UNDER CONTROL SO HE'S NOT FIGHTING OTHER CHILDREN

Answer 1

Whack his **** for him, hard. Use a wooden spoon or a cane.

Remember, you're not his f**king friend, you're his parent. Lack of obedience results in punishment.

Answer 2

For my 2 yo we use timeout until she sits there without crying (usually 2-3 mins) and then we talk to her and tell her that what she did was wrong and that it hurts people when you hit and/or bite. She listens and goes on about her business. If it gets too serious start whoopings. I know not everyone believes in whoopings as punishments, but sometimes it helps get the point across faster. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

When he hits you Scream Ouch and start to kinda cry it will show him that he is hurtting you...or you can just say NO really mean to him.. try not to hit him because if you leave a mark since he is in Foster care it could make it worse and you could lose him for good..try putting him in one spot to sit there for 2mins 2 mins to a 2 year old is a lot i was always told put the child in time-out for the number of there age like 2year old 2 mins 5year old 5mins.. Good Luck.. Glad your getting your Son back..

Answer 4

Obviously there is no consistency in this poor child's life.  You said it yourself "HE GOES BACK AND FORTH FROM MY HOME TO THE FOSTER HOME"  That's your problem right there and until there is a permanent consisent home for him he is going to lash out.  He is a confused little child and his behavior is not his fault.  It is the fault of those people in his life who keep shoving him back and forth.  I suggest that you don't start school until there can be some consistency in his life.  HIS well being is more important and no one seems to give a d**n about this little guy's well being.