How do i stop myself from crying in my heart?

Question

Everytime i saw disable person or retarded person, I always feel so sad that l i cry in my heart and sometimes my eyes goes red. Well you see I am GUY and I go to Gym and so I find kind of lame OR g*y to be in this situation. I am starting to feel very embarrasing.

Plz help.

Answer 1

Hmm, uh, well I think it's okay for a man to cry if he feels sadness or hurt etc...  It's human nature. For example, today I saw a man walking wiht his dog and this poor ol' doggy had only 3 legs.  It was so sad, but I was happy to see that the dog was just as happy as any other 4 legged dog!  

So I dont understand why you'd start to feel embarresed about it unless you are crying all the time or always crying like at the gym.  Then I would try to control your sadness.  But as far as I concerned it's okay for a man to cry!

Answer 2

Just a note: being disabled or retarded does not necessarily equate with misery. Adversity, yes, misery, not always.

Answer 3

go to a hospital with disabled children, become friends with a few of them, kind of like volentire work. you will slowly start to become more comfortable with it. thats what i would do, even though i am a girl.

Answer 4

Its good to have a GOOD heart.

It  means that you're a good man because you can feel other people's pain and doesn't mean your a g*y.

I feel that too when I saw street cats and dogs in the street with no food and master.  

Answer 5

If you feel this way why not volunteer at a local center that helps people with physical or mental health issues.  That way you would be helping them rather than feeling sorry for them.

Best of luck.  On, and it doesnt mean that youre a sissy for feeling this way.

Answer 6

Sounds like your a good guy, thats all.  Even guys who go to the gym are allowed to be kind in their hearts....

By the way, g*y does not equal lame...

Answer 7

It's really a good thing that you can empathize with people who face adversity, and that doesn't make you lame or g*y.

If you find that you're embarrassed about your emotional expression, then you can always try to hide it physically, but don't try to change it personally; I'd think it better to have a bleeding heart than a cold heart.

Answer 8

Just trying to find the good side of that retarded person? and if you couldn't find it in him/her at all?  you have to make up your mind.

Answer 9

it's a good thing, nothing to be ashamed of... maybe it will help your heart if you helped someone in that situation from time to time, maybe just make them smile...it's better to be in the g*y situation than ignore it and lose sight of the real meaning of it.

Answer 10

you have a good soul.

don't ever stop.