How do i take care of this?

Question

Ok, so this year, i just started being home schooled. I have been in public school the rest of my life. There was this girl named sarah who i never got along with and now she is telling everyone at school that i am only not there because im pregnant! People are mailing me congratulations cards and i have past teachers calling me to see how im doing and how far along i am. one problem, IM NOT PREGNANT! Everyone thinks i am because of her. How do i take care of this? How do i stop it from spreading?

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-rianna

Answer 1

Here are a few ideas. You can do any and all of them as you see fit.

Make regular visits to the school and visit your friends and teachers in person.

Have a personal chat with each teacher involved and directly ask them to STOP spreading these rumours, mention that you don't appreciate it, and approach her homeroom teacher suggesting that she ought to be disciplined because this could be considered slander or deffamation of character.

If necessary, write a letter to the principal.

Make sure you keep all these actions confidential.

Confront her publicly when she is with a group of her friends and ask her why she felt the need to spread rumour about you.

Don't let it get to you too much though. Eventually, they will find out that there is no baby on the way and Sarah's character will suffer more than yours ever did.

Answer 2

I'm a man, and to me this it has a practical solution, who care what peoples think!, and I think as long as your stomach don't grow let nature take its course in the meantime enjoy getting pamper

Answer 3

Go visit your old school, then everyone will see you aren't pregnant. I wouldn't blame you if you took revenge on the girl who started it either.  

Answer 4

You don't deal with Sarah at all. If your teachers are contacting you, tell them you are not pregnant, you are merely being homeschooled. Being the responsible adults they are (I hope) they will pass along this information to everoyne whom Sarah has lied to. Then Sarah looks like a jerk. Especially when you never get a big tummy and the baby never comes.

Answer 5

Visit the school one day when you are free and joke about the rumor that the girl spread. Like go up to the school and flaunt off your flat stomache and say "jokingly" am I pregnant, I didn't know? And say things that would make the girl the center of attention the bad way. And to rub it in more, just say to the girl in front of everybody "are you hiding something Sarah?"

Now people will know you're not pregnant, Sarah will be embarrased, and you just get your revenge.

People like this should see that their "plans" can get backfired.

Good Luck.

Answer 6

Go to school at lunch or whatever and let people see for themselves that you're not pregnant. Also, be sure that you tell a few people that this girl lied. It's bound to get around. People will eventually figure out what is true and that girl will look like a fool.

Answer 7

If you want to prove to them you are not pregnant, visit your ex-classmates at their school at some time this year (any time you consider of as the best) and give them all the evidence you are not pregnant (but don't let them know you are trying to prove you re not pregnant, because they may gossip you if they find out what you try to do).

If you find this idea stupid, just ignore them as much as you can. Don't answer the congratulations cards or the pone (even if it's a teacher who 's calling) etc. Or have someone tell them you really are not pregnant.  

Answer 8

go to the school and visit ALL your old friends and teachers, let them see for themselves.

Answer 9

You call the office of the school Sarah attends and file a harassment complaint.  Email and/or call everyone you can explaining to them that Sarah's spreading false rumors because she's a bully.  This needs to be confronted as best you can.  And the other suggestions about visiting the school are excellent ones -- that's something you should do too so long as it's acceptable according to school policy (about visitors).

Answer 10

BEST WAY : DO IT- jus say everyone i gave birth to a sweet baby last week. so come to visit her. thy will do this n come to the truth. doent it makw sense?