How do i talk to my famly?

Question

me and my bf have been trying to have another baby and it's not working. i know why im just so scared to tell him why. i need help. i have an eating disorder and i dont want him to think im selfish although i know thats kind of what i am being. i want help and to get better because i want nothing more in this world to make a bigger family with this man but i dont know how to talk to him about this. he knows i have had it in the past and he always is getting on to me about eating but i deny it. how do i tell him the truth?? please help!

Answer 1

straight out with it life is too short to be mucking about.

Answer 2

Eat more.  Get healthy.

Answer 3

You need to tell him.  It's a disease.  Your family should understand that since you have had it in the past that it's something you may have to struggle with for the rest of your life.  I don't mean that you can never get better.  I'm just saying you may have to battle it.  If they don't understand then you should explain it to them.  Of course they will be hurt but telling them would be the first step in working this out.  I have to tell my mom that I'm still using drugs today.  She thinks I've been clean but I'm tired of the guilt and I want help so just know that you aren't alone.  The truth will set you free. :)

Answer 4

tell him you want to have children but something is the matter and you have heard its maybe about the eating and maybe you cold help me and find a healtyhy diet.

Answer 5

First of all, just tell him, and express that you want to get better.

Second, don't try to have any more children. You're prone to eating disorders and seem to have trouble with social interaction, I don't think you need to be raising any kids to be... well... like you.

Answer 6

Just tell him.  If he really loves you and is supportive of you, he will be glad that you were honest with him and will help you to get the medical/psychological help that you need.  Please go and get some therapy for yourself.

Answer 7

opnme your mouth

Answer 8

i am in recovery for having an eating disorder so i understand how to take the first steps

1- sit your family downa and tell them so this was ones reaction doesnt put you of telling the rest and you would reather they hear it from you than someone else!

2- book an appointment with your gp and tell him and he will refer you to a clinic

3- wait for a reply and as soon as you have your appointment go and spill everything so this way when you feel like you dont want help whcih you will they cans still help you because they know all the headings and then next sesions you can fill in the gaps between the headings

answer everything truefuly

they will get you to record a food diary

they will weight you

they will help you!!

Do the 1st step asap becasue te longer you put it of the harde rit will be to say it!!

xoxo

good luck

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Answer 9

just be honest with it. If he really loves you he will help you thought recovery. Just talk to him in a private place and make sure that the situation is good. (Don't tell him before he goes to work, or before bed...) Because if you do it last minute he will have think about it when your not with him. so just do all of this and he should understand. Like i said if he really loves you and your family, he will understand and give you the help you need to get through it.  

Answer 10

if your eating disorder is do to you being worried about your weight, all those magazines are wrong, you do not need to skinny to be beautiful, this man loves you for who are. Its not to late to get back in the game. If your are deep in it, get a therapist. but i think you can do it with self discipline

just keep fight it is not healthy to do this. fight the magazines,and the media they are all wrong they don't now what life is about.

and if you try to fix the problem your bf will understand