How do i talk to my mom

Question

i want to tell her that im having s*x with people but everytime i think im ready she calls me nasty and she assumes im doing things with people and she thinks shes always right...i have alot of stuff i want to talk to her about and tell her about that happened when i was little but wenever i try to all she does iz yell at me and tell me how its my fault it happened and that i deserved it whatever happened to me because the way i carry myself...it really makes me mad so i dont tell her anything about..my mom doesnt kno everything she should about me...and i wanna talk to her because i feel she doesnt know me like she should as a mother...what should i do?

Answer 1

I can't imagine why she won't listen to you if you have made it sound important.  Just tell your mom to sit down and don't give her an opportunity to talk.  Tell her how important it is for you to talk to her and you need for her to listen to you.

Then keep on talking so she can't butt in and tell her all you want to tell her.  If she does start talking, you raise your voice and talk louder, telling her she needs to listen.

If she will not listen, write her a letter.  If she does not talk to you after reading the letter, then you need outside help to get her to listen to you.  

Good luck, hope everything work out OK.

Answer 2

What devil suggested is probably best, write her a letter. Make sure you tell her how important it is to you that she knows some things about you and how much you want to have an open relationship with her as her child. Hopefully she realizes that she is missing out on her childs life.

Answer 3

Well if your mom is already assmuming things like so... might as well be honest. Plus youll get a heavy load off your back.  

Answer 4

Write whatever you have in the form of a LETTER . post it to your address & let her pick it up or put it under her pillow so that she reads it .  

Answer 5

don't tell her until she ask you then she will be ready to listen