How do i talk to this girl on the phone???

Question

Ive been flirting with this girl for about one month...I talk to her in person, IM, and texting but when it comes to talking on the phone with her it becomes very awkward and we both run out of things to say...how do i fix this?

thanks in advance

Answer 1

PHONE s*x... nuff said

Answer 2

i totally know what you mean maybe you should act like your talking to her in person if that doesn't work then tell her you don't know what to say and that might start a conversation.if not talk about the first thing that's not embarrassing that comes to your mind.

Answer 3

i know what you mean.

maybe make a list of things to talk about beforehand.

occasionally ask, what are you thinking right now?

and when she asks a question, elaborate and elaborate. dont just say yes or no.

Answer 4

Phone s*x

Answer 5

talk about something that interest her, and if if you don't know just ask her

Answer 6

Just relax!! she's just a girl, if she's been flirting back then obviously she likes you. Maybe just stick with texting and IMing and call her when you are ready. Take it slow...have fun and good luck!!

-hope this helped!!

Answer 7

No Problem! (In advance)

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This actually happens a lot to me.  Avoid talking on the phone if it becomes really awkward

Or you could even write down conversation ideas

Hey, she can't see you! She'll never know

Also, if this doesn't work, just invite her to hang out when you're on the phone, since you seem to have more to say in person, so you can skip the phone conversation and get to see her, it's really a win-win.

Answer 8

Just relax man... if you can talk to her in person you can talk to her on the phone.  Although personally I hate talking on the phone and just get distracted a lot, so I usually don't talk much either.  But that's to anybody, lol, even the guys.  You could always have a couple drinks before you call her...

Answer 9

Whenever you run out of things to say pretend you have to go somewhere or do something and tell her you gotta go and hang up.  

Answer 10

ask these things when u talk to her ask her

how her day was

how was her work

how was school

what time did she sleep last night

what music r u listening 2

there are so much things to talk about just make it up while u talk 2her its really easy  

Answer 11

just never stop talking, ask her as many questions as you can think of, after a while you'' get used to talking to her and it'll be no problem

Answer 12

what ever you say in IM and texting say to her while talking to her.

I find it easier to chat when face to face. that way you can talk about anything and get a true reaction/response

Answer 13

when i first started dating... i had this problem... what you have to do is every time things get akward say something random like: whats you favorite color? then it will be her turn to say something and she might think your funny.

Answer 14

Do your homework, chum.

Find out what's she's interested in and go and research it so you have something to talk about.

Let's say she's a huge Gossip Girl fan. Start watching the show... watch it from the beginning if you can, and look up everything you can about the show, like who writes it, directs it, stars in it, what else the cast and crew have done, who they're dating in real life, and what various journalists at sites like salon.com are saying about it.

Takes some notes and have them handy when you're talking to her.

You could squeeze a two-hour conversation out of that, and you'll have a fresh topic every time a new episode comes out.

Answer 15

Talk dirty!?

Answer 16

haha same here lol idk wat else to say sometimes email your best answer plzzzz haha  

Answer 17

Either you:

Limit your calls to under 8 minutes

or

You keep a list of things next to you. It may sound corny but who's gonna see you? If it helps make the phone convo better than why not. And believe me, if you keep on suggesting things to say and she doesnt she'll realize that its her fault not urs.

Answer 18

Ask her to the park or for coffee. She will say yes if she likes you or not where it is to be a friend or more.

Answer 19

just relax, say something stupid, get comfortable around eachother. just randomly start laughing. haha. anything. :]

Answer 20

ask her questions like hypotheticals or something, that way you can joke around and keep the mood light but at the same time find out things about her personality!

hahaha let her do the talking, just keep askin questions hahahaha girls love to talk about themselves.

and this way it prevents you from slipping up and saying something stupid that you can't take back. ever hear the saying "give a man enough rope and he'll hang himself" ????

well that's often the case when you talk too much to a girl you like but aren't completely comfortable with yet!

Answer 21

that's a problem know a days with younger people know a days everyone text and does the IM  thing. that when it comes to actually talking to a person you don't know what to do. like to old saying practice makes perfect. try and find her interest and yours.