How do i tell my bf can he not ejaculate so fast?

Question

its becoming more of an issue than i thought and when i mean hes fast hes like less than a minute and he comes... hes 18 goes to the gym weve been together for 10months and im sick of it... any suggestions

im not dumping him lol

Answer 1

I'm sorry to say but i was with one of those guys for 3 years and it never got any better no matter what we tried ...  

Answer 2

well, i see the problem you are having. if he is "coming" that early in your s*x i reccomend that you have s*x more often. this creates a resistance to the "urge to splurge" so fast, so to speak. his time naturally should increase with the more sexual activity that you guys are having. so pretty much the more s*x you have, the better. cheers.

Answer 3

just tell him in his sleep and it will go into him unconsciously

Answer 4

Have s*x slower.

Answer 5

Premature ejaculation can be a real problem and men get all antsy about it.  Don't want to talk about it. Don't want their ladies to notice it.  Not an uncommon problem.

When it gets to be a problem for him he probably will see a doctor.  In the meanwhile I suggest play time prior ending in manual manipulaton and ejaculation.  Then about ten to  fifteen minutes later start the main show.  He can perform more than once, trust me.  He should be slower the second time around.  

Answer 6

Dont rush him and just take it slowly and then drag out the time after a week or two. You can say he does it too fast then just say that we can fix that. Just slowly train up to it. Thats how i learnt to shoot further

Answer 7

uhhh, seriously, you dont know?! tell him to go slow!

Answer 8

this would happen if your bf NEVER masturbated.

Answer 9

just say i dont mean to be rude but its selfish!!

Answer 10

deal with it.

Answer 11

Well... it depends on if your talkign about durring s*x or just messing around...

now, some guys are "minute men" and can't do anything about it, and will forever be this way... no matter what...

Only solution I know is either wear a thick condom durring everything, though maybe not as likened durring BJ's... or there is numbing cream, and condoms that come with it that are called "extended pleasure" basically is novicane in gel and you don't feel jack squat, but because of that he'll last longer...

Only bright side I can give you is that a BJ will take 2 minutes total and you can get on with whatever you need to do.

Answer 12

SInce he's getting his jollies off too fast.. then make him do some foreplay on YOU.. oral s*x, manual..  get some toys..  obviously you're not getting the chance to really get pleasure out of it first.

There are products you can get that will help him last a lil longer.. some men dont like using products tho.. it makes them feel inadequate.

I just had an adult toy party at my house this past weekend, and the sales rep reccommended a product for guys who dont last long..

https://pureromance.com/EC_ProductView.a...

Answer 13

Have him wear a condom, or m********e beforehand.  

Answer 14

Have slower s*x? lol sorry thats all i got...

but it cant happen that fast if its like really slow, does that make sense? HAHA