How do i tell my boyfriend that i love him?

Question

How do i tell my boyfriend that i love him?

Answer 1

HAHA this is a HARD one.. i had the same trouble telling my boyfriend who is now my husband.....

But i see it this way if you truly LOVE him  i learned that  you shouldnt question yourself. "is this the right time to tell him", How do i tell Him" what should i do"

Just say it . But i understand what u mean in how should u tell him just maybe the next time you guys say goodbye to each other say "i love you" before you say good bye..

Answer 2

Just ******* tell him, men aren't as insane us. h**l, he probably wont even care if you say that to him because he already assumes you love him.

Answer 3

Dude, I'm a guy....just freaking tell us. It's not hard. You girls are making it harder for yourselves. :(

Answer 4

give him a special gift ..............and say I LOVE YOU.........

Answer 5

Cuddle next to him, look at him real cute and whisper in his ear that you love him.  Or....write a short lovely poem on your body that you love him and surprise him when he undresses you.

Edit:  Got a great idea.  Just give him a PS3 with a note that says "I Love You"...altho by the time he sees the PS3, no words will be necessary.

Answer 6

You get his attention and then say the words "I love you."

The real question for you is not "how" to say the words, but what you mean when you say them. This will determine the "how," "when," and where".  You should be very clear in your own mind what you want to communicate and why.

You may have very warm loving feelings when you are with him. You are reporting this by telling him you love him. You might arrange to do so while sharing a quiet time together, or when preparing for s*x.

You may think you will have warm loving feelings for him and only him forever. You could tell him this. But please don't count on it being true. Feelings come and go. People who do not appreciate this become very disappointed. They think "I used to love him, but that's all over now".  You do not want to find yourself in this situation.

You may feel obsessed about him and want to surround and contain him. You may wish to do this by saying you love him, inducing him to move closer to you. But what happens if he doesn't? Then you are hurt and disappointed, and maybe even angry.

So you have to understand yourself first.

Now if building a lasting committed relationship is possible, because you are old enough and have enough in common, and you feel that you are willing and ready to commit to him and to keep expanding yourself to be a great partner to him, and you really want to share the adventure of living life together, that is a great thing.

Then you tell him you love him, and are ready to back it all up with those commitments and sentiments. That is big league play. But I certainly would be very careful not to move that far prematurely. Base this on understanding and trust which can only develop over time.

Now if this is what you want to say, then I would certainly arrange a suitable setting: a trip to a park or lake or waterfall, or even  a romantic getaway to another city or country.  Make the occasion a symbol of the great adventure you want to share.  

Great good luck to you.