How do i tell my ex how i feel, or should i even do it?

Question

I dated this guy a couple months ago and he completely changed my life, i used to be a mega geeky keener and he introduced me to partys and drinking and such like. Now we've been broken up for a while he completely screwed me over when his ex girlfriend came home from university and he had to choose between us he chose her. I've changed allot in that time, I'd say I'm prettier and allot more outgoing and i still party with all of his friends they all really like me allot. I think we both thought when we broke up I'd just be back to my math league competitions and naive life and he'd be having a blast with his girlfriend from uni. But the truth is he doesn't get to go out much anymore because apearantly she's psycho and really needy and high maintenance and he's starting to get anoid. I've been going out allot all summer and right now I'm trying to decide between several guys, who are all his friends. But the more i try to decide the more i realize i still like him alot and no other guy will make me get over him, I'd rather stay single and have some fun then break somebody else's heart because i'm just not ready. I just found some texts he sent me not too long ago asking me to come out to partys i must have missed them. I saw him at a party and he got me drunk just like he used too asked me to go downtown with him pulled me away from all the other guys and ended up sleeping in my car ( him in the back me in the front) to stop this other guy taking advantage when i was drunk. Now he started visiting me at work sometimes. I miss him allot and would do anything to have him back but i don't know how he feels i just wish he knew i am there for him and I'm not mad anymore. But in the mean time should i even bother giving one of the other guys a go. Does he just want to be friends is he just being protective in an elder brotherly way or might he still feel something. He told me at the end that he still felt the same way as he ever did about me but that he just had to choose, he chose her but now i realize she had been really pushy and i had just let him go, i told him i didn't mind. What should i do, should i say something or keep it to myself? I'm going back to high school in the fall he's staying here for uni and the other girls going away. What should i do??

Answer 1

give one of the other guys a chance.You never know, you might end up liking one of them better than you did your ex.You might not think it now, but you could,ya' know.

As for the ex, if he felt the same way about you when his ex came back dont you think he would still be with you now?

I guarantee that when the ex goes back to wherever she goes to uni, he'll be back at your doorstep,begging you to take him back,how much of an idiot he was to let you go, and that it's YOU he was really wanting all this time.

Question is:would you take him back,knowing that when/if his ex comes back, he'll be dropping your butt quicker than you can say "hello,honey".

Answer 2

Any guy that would get you drunk and ask you to go down on him is a LOSER! Respect yourself! Maybe the person you were before him wasn'tt so bad, maybe you just needed to be outgoing a little more but be yourself. Think about your dreams and what you wanted out of life before he came into the picture. The way you act around guys should show them that you respect yourself! Let him be! He dosen't know what he wants and it sounds like you both are just figuring things out for your life.don'tt put pressure on yourself to be sooo freakin serious anddon'tt do anything stupid! You sound extremely intelligent I know you'll make the right decision and that should what is best for YOU AND ONLY YOU!

Take Care  

Answer 3

Oy