How do i tell my girlfriend i dont like the guys she hangs out with?

Question

so i went to a college to party about an hour and a half from my house and stayed at my brothers house with his roomates, well me and one of his roomates hit it off and the first night we were talking about things and i learned she never had a bf before (shes 22) and that there was this guy who lived down the street who she would hook up with becuase she thought she couldnt do any better and he would just leave right after and only use her for it, so i said why and she said becuase her past has a tenancy to repeat itself, well we have been dating for two eyars and she will call me to tell shes going to hang out with him and his friends and im just worried shes gunna have a few too many and do something stupid, what should i go about doing or telling her, i told her i didnt know why but she was like hes my friend

Answer 1

Great idea; why not join them? If she has a few to many then you'll be there to supervise her. If she or her friends don't seem to be treating you right then you know what to do. :P

Answer 2

explain that you care about her n that past encounters with him according to her own words lead to s*x n after a few drinks you wouldnt like nething to happen that shed later regret. Then tell her you trust her...its other ppl you dont trust!  

Answer 3

first of all if he was really her friend he wouldn't have used her like that. you have a reason to worry about her and you should try to make her realize how you feel and put her in your shoes

Answer 4

Be honest with her. Tell her exactly what you told us: That he was previously only friends with her so he could get laid & the odds are that he's only inviting her over to his house so he can either get laid or lay the groundwork to get laid.

If you are worried, go with her. You are her boyfriend, so they shouldn't have any problem with you coming. If they try telling her no, then that's obviously a sign that they're planning on doing something to her later on that night & don't want you running an interference. I *really* get a bad feeling from this whole scenario. I just have this feeling like they're going to get her drunk & use her like a hooker & pass her around like a cheap bottle of wine.

She deserves better friends than that. I don't think she should give them the time of day.  

Answer 5

I think yall need to talk about it tell her how u feel about the guy and that you dont want her to be hanging out with him. And if she insist then say ok u wont mind if i come along if she says yes she is up to no good if you go then she is bein good. I think when your in a relationship you should know each others friends guy or girl and if your uncomfortable with them tell ur partner and see what change yall can make.  You should never lie about having friends of the opposite s*x will just ruin things for you. Good luck

Answer 6

ask to come along