How do i tell my ma i m pregnant? ?

Question

I am 15 n i once asked her what she would do if i did n she said shed kill me, shes scared me in 2 not telling her, so how do i do it she will find out eventually

Answer 1

You just have to tell her. She'll be mad, but she's your mother. As scared as you are, there's no option left, is there? Tell her and get it over with.  

Answer 2

u have to tell her. it won't be easy but u have to. u MAY go to a doctor first, to get medical advice. but u will have to tell ur mom. i dont know ur mom, so i cant tell u how to approach her. u may go to a councellor... either at ur skool or watever... and ask her if there are schools for pregnant girls... if there are... then get all the info. because ull need alot of ammunition to convince ur mom not to kill you... plus she'll see how responsible you are. if no one at your school knows about it... before you start showing signs u shoud try to et a transfer to one of those schools (if you can) but thts after you tell ur mom.she will probably go along with it as she also might not want anyone to know. just do responsible stuff. eg. go to the doctor, the councellor or watever. NEVER mention the word responsible or anything related to tht wen ur talking to ur mom... y? because shes gonna shout and say: IF U WERE RESPONSIBLE U WOULDNT BE PREGNANT!!!! so u see how tht goes.. just try to make the best choies before u tell her so she sees tht u r capable of having the baby... otherwise(i dont know if ur okay wth it) but i dont know if abortions are still legal... but u should find out wen u go to the doctor. i wish you all the best!  

GOOD LUCK! xoxoxoxoxo

,mjfanatic

Answer 3

have a serious conversation with her let her know how much you need her right now. you should tell her right away because you need to keep your self healthy good luck

Answer 4

my parents told me they would kill me if i got pregnant, and when i did get pregnant at 16 i didnt want to tell them but knew i had to because i knew hey would find out neways, so i told them a week after i found out because I have an ultra sound scheduled to see how far along i was so i told them about it and told them i had that appointment and if they wanted to come they could. my parents were disappointed at first, but after they get used to if normally their very supportive mine were. Now i have a beautiful baby boy who my parents adore.

Answer 5

All mothers say this when they think about there babies having babies but im sure your mum will be there for you when you need her the most! its not something you can hide so the sooner you tell her the better! she might seem angry to start with but shes your mum and she is the best person to help!

If telling her is to hard write her a letter telling her your worried to tell her, to read the letter and talk to you about it when she is ready to!

Answer 6

either get an abortion before she finds out or just plain tell her. she can't just throw you on the street, you're HER baby.

Answer 7

If you really think she'll do something drastic, you can always get a free abortion without your parents even finding out. Call your local women's clinic and/or Planned Parenthood.  You can also probably apply for Medi-caid without your parents' knowledge. Call your county's Social Service office.

If you're planning on having the baby at 15...well, in my opinion you're NUTS. At 15 you have no business having a child. If you're really super against abortion, I reccomend adoption.  

Answer 8

you have to tell her asap, she is mother she loves you no matter what, i'm sure she'll probably be mad for a while but she won't kill you or just abandon you i'm sure she will be there to support you and future baby. good luck!!

Answer 9

i told mine after they pulled everything like that... they were mad at first then they got over it... i called mine while they were at work lol.. easiest way.. go somewhere and call and tell them.. then u wont be around to get the yelling and they will jus be worried and want u 2 come home and talk.. might be mad for a bit but its a baby.. and their grandchild at that.. they will change their minds... they will be happy after awhile

Answer 10

You take a deep breath and remember that you're a parent now. You have to take that big step and be honest with your own parents.

No matter what you think, or how hard it is to tell them, parents actually tend to take it a lot better than you expect. Parents say a lot of things thinking that it will keep you from doing things they don't think you should do, like getting pregnant, but it happens. And parents are more understanding than we often give them credit for.

Tell your mom that you need her to take you to the doctor, because you're pregnant. Tell her that you understand if she's angry and disappointed, but you really need her support right now. Be honest, and tell her how you feel. No matter what you do, don't take the easy way out and text her, or call her, or email her, or anything like that. You need to be upfront with her, but sit down and talk to her face to face.

Answer 11

"Mom remember that one time I asked you what you would do if I was pregnant? What did you say again?"