How do i tell my mom i want a purity ring?

Question

we haven't had the s*x talk yet but i hope we have it soon so she can bring it up and i can say yeah i want one.But that won't happen yet.But i really feel strongly that i should wait until marriage.And no i didn't get this from jonas brothers even though i love them.And lol i try to make one myself but it didn't work and once I'm old enough to go to the mall by myself im gonna get one from a jewelry store even though it doesn't have words engraved on it it still is gonna be something special to me.But how do i tell my mom right now that i want a purity ring bc i do fell strongly in this subject

Answer 1

I know it's kind of uncomfortable to bring the topic up with your Mum, but the fact is that she'll be delighted that you want to live a pure life.

You don't need to have an in depth conversation with her about s*x, you just need to state your decision and ask for her co-operation in helping you acquire a ring.

I have a website http://stores.ebay.com/The-Promise-Ring-... that has loads more information about purity rings if you want to learn more. Maybe you can check out the rings before you talk to your Mum so you can work out exactly what you're asking for.

Answer 2

I'm sure your mother will be relieved that you want one and feel strongly about it (most mothers dont even want to think about their daughters having s*x)  Just bring it up in the morning over your breakfast by saying that you read about them and thought they were a good idea.  It would be even better if you told her this on a shopping day so you could get it right away.

Answer 3

Finally, someone openly expresses that they see the light! Hallelujah!! When you and your mom are alone, or if you are just talking about how school is, and how your friends are, just kind of work it into the conversation...Like, if you are in the car with your mom alone, and she is just asking what's new, just be like, Um, Mom? I really know that we haven't really talked about his subject, but I learned about this in school, (you did learn about it, right?) and I kinda want to talk to you about it. and shes just like, what honey? and your like, I really want to get a purity ring. I learned about what it means, and I really feel strongly about it. I want to wait until marriage, and I am sure about that. And this is my decision, I'm not just doing it because others are.

Does that help? And since you haven't had the talk yet, try not to say s*x, because then she will probably freeze up and be uncomfortable.

Answer 4

I think you should just tell her. It's definitely nothing to be ashamed of and I am sure she won't be upset. lol. She would probably be ecstatic and run to the store that minute. All women want to her their daughter to tell them that and think that way - so just say it!! And, it's ALOT better than asking her for birth control. LOL. Good Luck to you.

Answer 5

Haha, all these kids want one cause the Disney brats have one.

Just say, "Mom, I want a purity ring."

Answer 6

Try subtly easing into the subject like saying something like "Lots of people at school have had s*x with lots of guys, but I dont feel thats right...".  Im sure that your mom will be proud of you for wanting to wait until the time's right and support you on this.  Good luck.

Answer 7

hmm maybe go to the mall and look at one of them and be like "they are so pretty, and i love their meaning, im so gonna wait" or something like that and shed probably be talking about it with you or buy you one:D

Answer 8

Just tell her..I'm sure she will be pleased by the fact that you have something that you believe in so strongly...and the fact that the thing you don't believe in is pre-marital s*x.